Thread: How to masturbate...?

(Sorry if this whole thing is a little explicit)
I don't know how to make masturbation feel good..
it's not because I'm uncomfortable doing it, I'm a fairly sexual person.. I just can't make it feel *good* to myself, even with a vibrator.
The only way I can feel good is through pillowhumping, however I now have a long-distance bf and phone sex had become our main way of being intimate and pillowhumping during it isn't really an option.

I've never reached orgasm as far as I know, by myself or with anyone,
Though guys going down there feels a lot better than me doing it,
it doesnt matter how turned on I am when I try, even just rubbing my clit doesnt heat it up or get me going the same way a guy doing it would
everyone says that if you want your partner to give you an orgasm you need to know how to do it yourself, and i dont have a clue!
I want to be able to feel good with my bf despite the distance