male enhancement pills???

**collegechick** · 02-12-2012 10:22 PM

Hello,
My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now.
During the first couple of months of being together we decied to start having sex, well i have to say he is on the smaller size.. not really sure as far as inches.. but umm anyways one night i had his phone and i cought him in his emails with male enhancement pills with a reciept. he got the free trial and that was it.
well i was to late when i found that email it was to late. he took the whole bottle of pills. about a month or so after that i found another email.. he just got another bottle and i made him throw them out..
I didnt want him to change himself for me. i love him but i guess i do want him to be a little bit bigger.. since hes been off the pills hes gotten smaller and he cant stay hard..
should he get back on them??? should i tell him to go to the doctors???
I love him but im just confused on what to tell him. he mentioned about getting more and i was just speechless..

please and thank you for advice..

**acerousme** · 02-12-2012 10:34 PM

Hi College. Ive closed your poll for now until further notice.

Do you think he needs the pills? they sound dangerous...especially if hes lost size, and cannot get hard...so I wouldnt play around with that

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 02-12-2012 10:40 PM

Poll is granted

There have been in the past, polls based on "other people's work" as an example, personal polls are fine.

Best to check, as our Mod Ace did.

I voted.

**acerousme** · 02-12-2012 10:43 PM

Thank you CW...I wasnt sure...better safe than sorry. Sorry College. I will vote now

**ItsASecret** · 02-12-2012 10:43 PM

I would talk to him first, see if there is anything you two can work on together to try and help him stay harder for longer. A lot of the problem is likely stress induced from having tough work days or school or whatever. If stress is the cause then finding a way to minimize that stress can do wonders without any sort of drug intervention. However if he chooses pills he should only consult with a physician for a prescription. There are a lot of nutcase sellers on the internet that will sell falsely labelled drugs. Medications such as Viagra require a prescription and the internet does not provide that. Taking random drugs from online sources is extremely dangerous.

**collegechick** · 02-12-2012 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by ItsASecret

I would talk to him first, see if there is anything you two can work on together to try and help him stay harder for longer. A lot of the problem is likely stress induced from having tough work days or school or whatever. If stress is the cause then finding a way to minimize that stress can do wonders without any sort of drug intervention. However if he chooses pills he should only consult with a physician for a prescription. There are a lot of nutcase sellers on the internet that will sell falsely labelled drugs. Medications such as Viagra require a prescription and the internet does not provide that. Taking random drugs from online sources is extremely dangerous.

yea he bought them well got them free off porn website ads.

**collegechick** · 02-12-2012 11:17 PM

I dont want him to have to take them i want it to be all natural but if he cant keep it up and we cant have sex and he gets frustrated over it like he does already then idk what to say or do.. i love him.. and loving him is having sex .. lol we are pretty use to it on a daily basis.. lol and now its been kinda spread out.
sooo i dunno. i told him i want him to go to the doctors but idk if hes going to go through with it

**jns** · 02-12-2012 11:23 PM

I won't vote without more information. Were the pills Viagra, Levitra or Cialis? The cost per pill can be quite high on those without insurance. Other things are not recommended. There are those that contain only a little of the active ingredient or an uneven amount due to poor mixing. There are those that are dangerous. The fact that he isn't getting hard may be psychological. He needs to be diagnosed by a medical doctor if he has erectile dysfunction.

**collegechick** · 02-12-2012 11:33 PM

He got them from a porn website idk it was some brand when i looked at the ingrediants and it looked like all natural herbs and stuff and when i kinda asked my sister about it she said that if anything they wouldnt work. but now this is happening and idk what to do.. im so lost.. its the guy i love and i have to say i want to marrie and having sex is just in our schedual lol we always make time for it.. i always make him happy it just never stays up

he had a free trail and then after they were supposta send him more pills i did find a thing saying that he cancled his subsciption and got money because they took it right out of his bank account.

sooo idk.. i hope its not erectile dysfuction.. what would he have to do to get rid of that??

**sp346** · 02-13-2012 06:26 AM

As far as I am aware, there are no prooven herb, medications or food supplements that can change a man's size. It is a waste of money. If he is having erectile issues, it may be due to performance anxiety due to his lack of confidence in his size. You guys will need lot of communication to work though that. If it still is an issue, he should see a sex therapist before going for viagra. If it is body and confidence issues, it will be life long issue that should be dealt with now instead of taking some pill for a temporary soluation.