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    Default How do I make condoms feel better for him?


    My boyfriend and I have been using condoms since we started having sex, but he didn't tell me that they were hurting him until just recently. I'm on birth control pills, but I'm too paranoid to do it without a condom (I know there are other contraceptives out there but condoms are simple and cheap).
    It hurts when he puts it on and takes it off, but not enough to leave red marks on his penis and cut off the circulation. We did put lube in the condom last time we had sex, and it felt better putting it on, but taking it off still killed him.
    I'm not concerned about the length of the condoms because he's average sized, and that's not what's making it hurt; it's his girth. He has a wide penis and I don't think regular condoms are going to cut it. My problem is, I don't know what condoms to buy. I wanted to get Magnums, but those are also longer than Trojan's regular sized condoms, and I don't want them to fall off while we're having sex.
    Has anyone else had the same problem? How do you make sex feel better for both parties? Which condoms are the best to use?

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    Thank you! (:

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    Hi, my name is Mariah. I am only 16 and I need some help. I can't get wet anymore!! Sadly, I do have a sexual past and I wonder if it has anything to do with it.
    I started having sex at the age of 12 (I know, that is HORRIBLE, but I was in a very dis-functional family and I took comfort in the wrong person.) Ever since then, I have only had sex with one guy. This boy used me for sex until I was 15 years old. Now, I have a new boyfriend and he literally saved me from this jerk. He is 19 and I am 16 (we have parental consent, don't worry) and we have been together for one year. He is a virgin and I want to have a passionate first time with him so maybe I can replace those 3 years I had before. (The ex was small but abusive) We started doing foreplay about 6 months ago and I would get very wet. Now I don't. I feel just as horny as I did before but I don't get wet at all he thinks I'm not attracted to him and it's horrible!!!!
    I am on birth control but this started a little bit before I was on it. I take allergy medicine and an acid reflex pill as well. This makes no sense to me. I need help. Anyone have an answer as to why this is happening, or any tips on how to get wet??? This is very annoying.

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    Part of it may be due to the so called "Coolidge Effect" named after the former USA president. Your body may no longer be reacting to the novelty of the situation. Try to explain this to your bf. It is not necessary that you get very wet as you can use store bought lubrication for sex or foreplay.
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    change the pilles

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