A Woman's G-spot?

kermit · 07-18-2007, 09:27 PM

Hello ladies. First I want to say thank you to everyone taking the time to read my question and share their perspective.

My questions are about the sensitive areas inside a woman's vagina the so called g-spot.

My wife really enjoys when I stimulate her inside with my fingers and rub her clitoris. When I first insert a finger just inside the opening before passing the pubic bone she always jumps a little in pleasure. She also gives a similar response as I insert a 2nd finger through this same area.

What I read tells me is that the most sensitive area inside a woman is the g-spot, an area on the top wall behind the pubic bone. I'm pretty sure I know where this area is in my wife. I can feel the area get really rough and lumpy as she gets aroused and then smooth after she reaches orgasm. By continuing to rub firmly in this area I can feel that texture change and take her to orgasm over and over, pretty much indefinitely until she gets sore.

All that sounds good and well, but what I find odd is this. When rubbing the clitoris and areas just inside the vagina she gives indications of strong sensation. However the "g-spot" does not seem to give her a lot of sensation. Evidence is that area leads to orgasms, but she never reacts to stimulous there like the other spots mentioned. Also, when rubbing inside her and asking if she has a favorite spot she just gives me a funny look and says not really.

What I am curious to hear from other woman's perspectives is:

Is what I described above "typical"?

Can women tell when their g-spot is being stimulated? Can women tell where their g-spot is?

Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling?

Any idea of what causes the change in texture from lumpy to smooth in that area before and after orgasm? Do women feel anything sensation or change related to this?

It seems after orgasm my wife's clitoris area becomes rather sensitive and she wants me to ease up on stimulating there, but not so for the g-spot. I can keep rubbing that firmly without even so much as a pause. Am I reading her body right or does this area need a break as well?

**ChelseaRenee** · 07-19-2007, 07:03 AM

I can answer some of this for you.

Is what I described above "typical"?
Honestly, there is no typical in this area. EVERY women is different.
Can women tell when their g-spot is being stimulated? Can women tell where their g-spot is?
Yes, we can tell. We know the general area, and can tell when it's being stimulated.
Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling?
This may be different for some, but to me, when my g-spot is stimulated, it almost feels as though you have to urinate, though not in the nagging sense. And yes, somehow this does feel good. Everywhere else inside the vaginal canal is much less sensitive. Clitoral stimulation is much more intense, as this is has the highest density of nerve clusters in both the male and female bodies.
Any idea of what causes the change in texture from lumpy to smooth in that area before and after orgasm? Do women feel anything sensation or change related to this?
This is don't know. Any help?
It seems after orgasm my wife's clitoris area becomes rather sensitive and she wants me to ease up on stimulating there, but not so for the g-spot. I can keep rubbing that firmly without even so much as a pause. Am I reading her body right or does this area need a break as well?
Honestly, that area should be fine. This area has a lot less nerves than the clitoris. It becomes uncomfortable after receiving a clitoral orgasm to keep up the stimulation. If after having a g-spot orgasm women reacted the same, she would let it be known. Stimulation after climax through clitoral stimulation doesn't feel very good. Hope I helped a bit!

**stiggybird** · 07-19-2007, 09:36 AM

im not too sure where it is but i think i may of felt it.
i usually forget what happends during sex because its pretty mind-blowing lol.
its good to see that you were asking her where she liken it, interaction is really important, although eye contact is a huge issue for me lol.\

Keep at it.

**stiggybird** · 07-19-2007, 09:38 AM

Isnt the G-spot there to make a woman feel full?
i get confused with it too cos its publicised more than the clit for some strange reason yet its not as good.

lol im confused now

kermit · 07-19-2007, 11:50 PM

Thanks for the replies.

Stiggybird ... curious to know what you mean be "there to make a woman feel full"?

coriolan · 07-20-2007, 12:07 AM

Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling?

In my experience, g-spot stimulation is much more mellow than clitoral stimulation. While it tends to add to a full-body sense of good times ahead, it doesn't lead to the same building of tension preceding an orgasm. While I can tell if my g-spot is being stimulated (and find it myself), it's not as immediately obvious as, say, when something touches my clitoris.

It also doesn't do much for me on its own--it works best when added to in-progress oral or manual sex. So I suppose for me, it's something of a gentle nudge along.

Otherwise, I'd have to second ChelseaRenee's answers to the rest of your questions. Don't know about the texture thing either, though I'd guess it has to do with differing blood flow to the area at different stages of arousal.

**tamoun** · 07-20-2007, 08:09 AM

I'm 24 and I can't say for sure that I actually know when I have an orgasm. I don't think I even know when my G-spot is. But, I do kow that I can give myself an orgasm in just a few minutes, when I'm having sex that's all a whole different story.
Sometimes, I feel bad that I can get to that level with my boyfriend most of the time.
For example, last night we had an amazing time together. and yes I think he did reach my g-spot. at a certain point I felt out of breath...and it was not from yelling.
And there was anothertime, he ate me out till I had one, that one I knew for a fact....I didn't even want him to touch afterwards....I felt so sensive and shaking....it was just mind blowing...

I wish there was some sort of manual...that tells you exactly where, how, and when...lol.

07-18-2007, 09:27 PM	#1
kermit Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 20	A Woman's G-spot? Hello ladies. First I want to say thank you to everyone taking the time to read my question and share their perspective. My questions are about the sensitive areas inside a woman's vagina the so called g-spot. My wife really enjoys when I stimulate her inside with my fingers and rub her clitoris. When I first insert a finger just inside the opening before passing the pubic bone she always jumps a little in pleasure. She also gives a similar response as I insert a 2nd finger through this same area. What I read tells me is that the most sensitive area inside a woman is the g-spot, an area on the top wall behind the pubic bone. I'm pretty sure I know where this area is in my wife. I can feel the area get really rough and lumpy as she gets aroused and then smooth after she reaches orgasm. By continuing to rub firmly in this area I can feel that texture change and take her to orgasm over and over, pretty much indefinitely until she gets sore. All that sounds good and well, but what I find odd is this. When rubbing the clitoris and areas just inside the vagina she gives indications of strong sensation. However the "g-spot" does not seem to give her a lot of sensation. Evidence is that area leads to orgasms, but she never reacts to stimulous there like the other spots mentioned. Also, when rubbing inside her and asking if she has a favorite spot she just gives me a funny look and says not really. What I am curious to hear from other woman's perspectives is: Is what I described above "typical"? Can women tell when their g-spot is being stimulated? Can women tell where their g-spot is? Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling? Any idea of what causes the change in texture from lumpy to smooth in that area before and after orgasm? Do women feel anything sensation or change related to this? It seems after orgasm my wife's clitoris area becomes rather sensitive and she wants me to ease up on stimulating there, but not so for the g-spot. I can keep rubbing that firmly without even so much as a pause. Am I reading her body right or does this area need a break as well?

07-19-2007, 09:36 AM	#3
stiggybird VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: UK, England Posts: 29	im not too sure where it is but i think i may of felt it. i usually forget what happends during sex because its pretty mind-blowing lol. its good to see that you were asking her where she liken it, interaction is really important, although eye contact is a huge issue for me lol.\ Keep at it. __________________ AlisonStiggy-Bird*

07-19-2007, 09:38 AM	#4
stiggybird VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: UK, England Posts: 29	Isnt the G-spot there to make a woman feel full? i get confused with it too cos its publicised more than the clit for some strange reason yet its not as good. lol im confused now __________________ AlisonStiggy-Bird*

07-20-2007, 08:09 AM	#7
tamoun VIP Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 30	I don't know when I have an orgasm I'm 24 and I can't say for sure that I actually know when I have an orgasm. I don't think I even know when my G-spot is. But, I do kow that I can give myself an orgasm in just a few minutes, when I'm having sex that's all a whole different story. Sometimes, I feel bad that I can get to that level with my boyfriend most of the time. For example, last night we had an amazing time together. and yes I think he did reach my g-spot. at a certain point I felt out of breath...and it was not from yelling. And there was anothertime, he ate me out till I had one, that one I knew for a fact....I didn't even want him to touch afterwards....I felt so sensive and shaking....it was just mind blowing... I wish there was some sort of manual...that tells you exactly where, how, and when...lol.

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07-19-2007, 07:03 AM	#2
ChelseaRenee Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 288	I can answer some of this for you. Is what I described above "typical"? Honestly, there is no typical in this area. EVERY women is different. Can women tell when their g-spot is being stimulated? Can women tell where their g-spot is? Yes, we can tell. We know the general area, and can tell when it's being stimulated. Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling? This may be different for some, but to me, when my g-spot is stimulated, it almost feels as though you have to urinate, though not in the nagging sense. And yes, somehow this does feel good. Everywhere else inside the vaginal canal is much less sensitive. Clitoral stimulation is much more intense, as this is has the highest density of nerve clusters in both the male and female bodies. Any idea of what causes the change in texture from lumpy to smooth in that area before and after orgasm? Do women feel anything sensation or change related to this? This is don't know. Any help? It seems after orgasm my wife's clitoris area becomes rather sensitive and she wants me to ease up on stimulating there, but not so for the g-spot. I can keep rubbing that firmly without even so much as a pause. Am I reading her body right or does this area need a break as well? Honestly, that area should be fine. This area has a lot less nerves than the clitoris. It becomes uncomfortable after receiving a clitoral orgasm to keep up the stimulation. If after having a g-spot orgasm women reacted the same, she would let it be known. Stimulation after climax through clitoral stimulation doesn't feel very good. Hope I helped a bit!

07-19-2007, 11:50 PM	#5
kermit Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 20	Thanks for the replies. Stiggybird ... curious to know what you mean be "there to make a woman feel full"?

07-20-2007, 12:07 AM	#6
coriolan Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 2	Is there a distinct sensation difference for women when the g-spot is hit versus just being rubbed elsewhere inside? Or if not "distinct", what is the difference in feeling? In my experience, g-spot stimulation is much more mellow than clitoral stimulation. While it tends to add to a full-body sense of good times ahead, it doesn't lead to the same building of tension preceding an orgasm. While I can tell if my g-spot is being stimulated (and find it myself), it's not as immediately obvious as, say, when something touches my clitoris. It also doesn't do much for me on its own--it works best when added to in-progress oral or manual sex. So I suppose for me, it's something of a gentle nudge along. Otherwise, I'd have to second ChelseaRenee's answers to the rest of your questions. Don't know about the texture thing either, though I'd guess it has to do with differing blood flow to the area at different stages of arousal.