Thread: Caught boyfriend masturbating while watching on line porn

i hear you - and you're right. it's not cheating.

but it's a little bit like the kid who gets caught with his hand in the cookie jar. his mom says, "no cookies before dinner because it will spoil your appetite!"

so the kid waits for his mom to turn her back & gets potato chips out of the jar next to the cookies. when his mom gets mad he says, "but you said no cookies - i didn't get cookies."

but the point is the same. just like with porn & cheating. the impact on many women is the same.

you seem to have impressive maturity about this issue - wish i had at 17.

i'm 34 by the way.

Originally Posted by whilhelm

i hear you - and you're right. it's not cheating.

but it's a little bit like the kid who gets caught with his hand in the cookie jar. his mom says, "no cookies before dinner because it will spoil your appetite!"

so the kid waits for his mom to turn her back & gets potato chips out of the jar next to the cookies. when his mom gets mad he says, "but you said no cookies - i didn't get cookies."

but the point is the same. just like with porn & cheating. the impact on many women is the same.

you seem to have impressive maturity about this issue - wish i had at 17.

i'm 34 by the way.

Ok yea that makes since. I agree with what your saying.
I'm to tired to even think of anything to say back to that..

I have a funny story about yesterday.
My girlfriend told me to come over yesterday I got there and she was crying because her friends were mad at her all of them. Because 3 nights ago her and I got in a fight and she left in her car and she made the choice to go to the hospital so she could talk to somone which I'm very thankful she made instead of driving off a cliff. She thought I didn't want her anymore and that everyone was leaving her. But I came to the hospital as soon as I found out where she was. we went home that night at 4:00 am. so we just crashed at my house. the next morning her mom and all of her friends were mad at her. her mom understands now but her friends feel that since she wasn't "Physicaly harmed" like an accedent its not important. As if they feel she was just bluffing.

So she got upset, and I came over and I couldn't cheer her up. but eventually I had her running around the room from me cause I was tickling her. This is where the funny part comes in, She was at the foot of the bed standing on the floor and I got ontop of the bed and tried to stand up.

... She has a ceiling fan... which I had forgot about and CRACK! right in my forhead. It was on high and it took me right off my feet haha. we thought it was hillarious until she moved my hand and I was bleeding from my head. But we went to the doctor and now its glued shut.

Thats my funny story. well partially.


and by the way, thanks for what you said about me. I don't get that much because most people think I'm a little kid. but I don't feel age has anything to do with it because there are adults today that act worse than a 2 year old and still havn't figured it out.
so thanks

Believe it or not, porn is just porn to alot of my friends and I. We don't look it thinking, "Man I'd love for my significant other to look like this!", its nothing like that. We look it when we're bored; plain and simple. Sometimes my buddy will send me a site and say, "DUDE, look at this!" out of sure disbelief, or just to LOL it. I guess I just jumped in here to say, and I can't speak for all men because all men are different, BUT, my group of friends, 'bout 15 guys, just look it and laugh, or send pictures to each other to say "Hey look this." Those of us who are in a relationship still look it, and at points a few of us have said "I think I look porn a little much." So it's not really an unconscience decision.
Just thought I would give a little insight to the inside of a man's mind.
How bout trading? LOL
Best of luck,
Christopher

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