i need help and fast

his lover 4ever · 07-28-2007, 07:48 PM

I have figured out that the pee filing is normal for me right before i O. But I cant at all. I am a virgin so i only do oral sex. But why cant I. Ive never been able to before and it is soo frustrating. what me and my bf do fells great and those feelings are strong but i cant finish. I dont know what to do and now my bf thinks its him. what do I do???

NewAtThis · 08-17-2007, 01:21 AM

Stay relaxed. Try not to pressure yourself into an O, Just close your eyes, and focus on how good it feels.

08-19-2007, 09:50 AM

Hard to decipher what you are trying to get across.

To achieve orgasm in our world is a miricle, so don't mentally whip yourself if you don't achieve it.

Only ever happened to me once in my life so this gives you an idea of just how hard it is to achieve.

Allow at least 9 hours to achieve orgasm, thats how long it took me and my partner, you both have to have affective stimulation of your erogenous zones, if you have any psychological reason that blocks orgasm you need to first deal with those issues before you can achieve it.

Read everything you can on how to achieve orgasm.

Masters and Johnson if you can find it.

If you can focus on hours of foreplay maybe you are able to achieve orgasm.

10 minutes I don't thinks so.

Things that block orgasm:

Previous rape episode, molested at an early age, religious brainwashing, anything that says that sex is bad or wicked or unhealthy.

Physically tired, mentally tired, what you think of your own body, if your concerned about what your partner thinks of your body, you will find it difficult or impossible to orgasm.

Your mind is mostly the problem, if you can can unlearn what has been brainwashed into your head maybe you have a chance of achieving orgasm.

ladyinred9 · 08-30-2007, 11:01 PM

You need to masterbate and learn your body and what it takes to reach orgasm. Stop depending on a man to do it. Once you are comfortable doing it by yourself...you can show your BF what he needs to do. Every women is different-so guide him...but first you need to figure it out yourself!!!

07-28-2007, 07:48 PM	#1
his lover 4ever Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 4	i cant O whats wrong with me??? I have figured out that the pee filing is normal for me right before i O. But I cant at all. I am a virgin so i only do oral sex. But why cant I. Ive never been able to before and it is soo frustrating. what me and my bf do fells great and those feelings are strong but i cant finish. I dont know what to do and now my bf thinks its him. what do I do??? Last edited by his lover 4ever; 07-29-2007 at 12:10 PM.

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08-17-2007, 01:21 AM	#2
NewAtThis Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1	Stay relaxed. Try not to pressure yourself into an O, Just close your eyes, and focus on how good it feels.

08-19-2007, 09:50 AM	#3
GentileBen Guest Posts: n/a	Hard to decipher what you are trying to get across. To achieve orgasm in our world is a miricle, so don't mentally whip yourself if you don't achieve it. Only ever happened to me once in my life so this gives you an idea of just how hard it is to achieve. Allow at least 9 hours to achieve orgasm, thats how long it took me and my partner, you both have to have affective stimulation of your erogenous zones, if you have any psychological reason that blocks orgasm you need to first deal with those issues before you can achieve it. Read everything you can on how to achieve orgasm. Masters and Johnson if you can find it. If you can focus on hours of foreplay maybe you are able to achieve orgasm. 10 minutes I don't thinks so. Things that block orgasm: Previous rape episode, molested at an early age, religious brainwashing, anything that says that sex is bad or wicked or unhealthy. Physically tired, mentally tired, what you think of your own body, if your concerned about what your partner thinks of your body, you will find it difficult or impossible to orgasm. Your mind is mostly the problem, if you can can unlearn what has been brainwashed into your head maybe you have a chance of achieving orgasm.

08-30-2007, 11:01 PM	#4
ladyinred9 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 26	You need to masterbate and learn your body and what it takes to reach orgasm. Stop depending on a man to do it. Once you are comfortable doing it by yourself...you can show your BF what he needs to do. Every women is different-so guide him...but first you need to figure it out yourself!!!