Thread: How can i tighten my vagina?

Listen, he's just messing with your head because hes an emotional abuser. No guy in any circumstance should say that to someone whom they are loving, if he had a reason to mean what he said he wouldnt be with you right now would he? FVCK him oh an yeah what I have done to excersize, one good thing is a bike stationary, another is when you go pee and you hold it you are tightening your muscles so if you hold it in spurts while in the bathroom that should be an effective excersize as well.
And also, it really just depends on the guy you are with really, I've been told the same thing before but you know I am with a guy now that can never get enough of me, it took a few visous assholes to get here but hey it was worth it because I told those assholes off and it felt good. You can get any guy you want, what girl cant really? Ive found out that 80 percent of men are insecure about there penis size and if they arent doing anything for you sexually there first instict is to accuse you. Just tell him to go play with his pencil d1CK in front of the fake 6 inch screen and have some fun with your life girl!! Its a process......... Good luck

Thankyou!
Your replies is means to me, such a special power, thats i should think optimistic. I hope I can change him, not jus for me but good to him as well..

Originally Posted by wenwen

Thankyou!
Your replies is means to me, such a special power, thats i should think optimistic. I hope I can change him, not jus for me but good to him as well..

I truly feel for you, but you can't change people. A person can only change one's own self, not others. To attempt to do so is soul-destroying because it can never work if the focus of your efforts is not interested in changing himself.

In my humble opinion, you should either accept someone for who they are and get used to feeling as upset as you do at present (because there will almost be certainly be a lot more misery to come) on account of your boyfriend's words and actions; or leave him in order to be happy in yourself. He is clearly dragging you down because of his own inadequacies and I hate to think of you wasting your time on such a loser; only to find out that your endeavours have been fruitless.

From your posts, it doesn't sound like your boyfriend has any interest whatsoever in changing himself for the better or even listening to you, so I feel the smartest thing for you to do would be to leave him and make yourself happy; whether with someone else or not. You do not have the power to change your boyfriend or even influence his actions, but you have full power over yourself, so please exercise that and accept only the love and respect that you know you deserve; nothing less.

ok still new to this but the dates are from 2007 but post as 2008 so I am going to respond. In my opinion, maybe the problem is the guy and not you. Did he ever think that maybe is package is not big enough and maybe he is just trying to pass his insecurities off on you. The porn thing is not bad if it is something you choose to do together and my gosh if he is talking about you being too loose, have you seen what is done on porn? 2 sometimes 3 guys at a time. Sounds like he has tunnel vision and tunnel issues with himself. I dated a guy once that was bi-polar and claimed to be a sex freak and have all this experience and lets just say that he wasnt all that but because of his issues with his size or lack there of he would always say things like what you are going through. The exercises are great for anyone because it does help everything including the bladder but if you really want to shock his a** next time you do have sex if YOU decide you want to, practice a good old squeeze on him right before he's about to get off and then send him to the curb. Tell him not only did you tighten up but you toughened up and decided he is package is no longer enough for you. If you enjoy sex and he is holding out then send him packing. If you denied him sex can you imagine what he would say and do. Let him love his porn and find someone who will treat you like a queen. Life is too short to not have great hot sex and if he makes you feel uncomfortable you will never allow yourself to really enjoy all your sexual options.

First, there is most probably nothing wrong with your vagina. The Kegel exercise will help YOU enjoy sex more. My lady friend has had 4 kids and we fist. However there is NOTHING wrong with her equipment - nothing.

Re the porn watching. If he watches porn rather than "be with you" when the two of you are together, then there is a real problem. There is nothing wrong with viewing porn per say but if he does it to the detriment of your relationship, then it is a problem. Just as if he sat at computer and chatted with other women when the two of you were supposed to be enjoying each others company.

Many men view porn because it gives them a "safe" relationship with women. They don't have to actually interact with the women, and they can "make them go away" at the flick of a switch. Could this be his situation.

I believe you have to seriously re-evaluate your relationship. It is not clear how old you are, that can make a big difference. But do not accept a relationship with anyone where you are treated like a toy that is brought out to be played with when it suits him.

That will only lead to disaster!

wenwen, if u want to make your relationship work try the kegel excercises, they really work, just tighten your pee muscle for a few seconds at a time. but i think your bf has a problem and you should tell him like it is. don't compare u to the other girls in the porn movies that he looks at all the time.

Ah, glad this came up, I haven't had my fill of year old irrelevent threads this week. Buck, you're a fool. Both for your necroposting, and for you're abusive use of capital letters and the letter 'z'.

You lose.

Also, releasing life-long pent-up anger physically on one guy is pretty lame too.