Hi, this is my first thread.
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I?m 20 years old and I?m currently seeing a guy. We have gotten sexual and It?s all good and fine, but I know I can do better in bed. I really wanna show off, but I need help. Can anyone share some of their tips and tricks, any particular thing they do to make a man just luv you in bed?? Thanks a lot!
Do not underestimate the power of just the enthusiasm you are presenting here!! If your guy knows how excited you are to please him, that notion alone is going to please him.
Everything you do for him, do it with your whole heart, no half-butted attempts at anything, no eyerolling or counting celing tiles. Keep focused on his pleasure and your pleasure. Be willing and excited to try new things (that don't cause you physical or emotional harm) and inniate new things as well!
My personal advise?
Blow jobs, give them early and give them often, give them with enthusiasm and to completion. Give them sometimes with no expectation of reciprocation, maybe even give him a back rub after if you really want to make his night on occasion.
I am not saying its all about his pleasure, but you can pick certain nights where it is all about his pleasure. Showing him how much he means to you through occasional acts of selfless pampering.
I make my guy feel like a king in his home, and for that he treats me like a fairy princess 99.9% of the time.
Pleasing a guy isn't always about tricks and techniques (there are some however that are awesome but will vary on the guy to whether or not they blow his mind or not) its about being excited to be there...
As long as he is aware how into him you are, he is going to be satisfied. As long as you tune into his needs, ask him what he likes, share fantasies and explore his body and allow him to explore yours... you can learn together how to knock both his and your own socks off.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
I think Hopeless and Happy have it correct and don't see a need for any type of trick. Whatever you're doing with him just be the completely in it and as HD said, pamper him sometimes completely without expectation and it will come back to you when he knows you're doing it all out of your love and appreciation of who he is.
My DH and I do this from time to time for each other and we both just love it so much and I've never had a better orgasm. I mostly give him oral when I'm pampering him but anything he wants he can have, anywhere. The same is true when he's pleasuring me although a precisely placed and motioned tongue and finger drives me wild.
When it comes to sex there are no tricks (except maybe the mouth/hand switcharoo). Being great in bed is......
*Body language. If you can tell when he's just about to the point of no return then the world is your oyster. Keeping anyone on that event horizon is the surest way to turn ordinary sex into an adventure. Of course there is no carved-in-stone rule for knowing when a guy is about to pop, you just have to practice with him until you know his signals.
*Technical skill. These are the basic instructions found in every 'better sex' book or video. By themselves they mean very little (and why would anyone need to know 20+ ways to give a handjob?), BUT, Its good to have an arsenal of sexual technique available. It'll prevent bedroom boredom and by doing something better or different than anyone else he has been with gets you bonus marks.
*Enthusiasm. Tigger got all the action, Eeyore stays home and watches porn ("well I suppose.." should never be heard in a sex situation)
*Noise. Sex is loud... if sex isn't loud something is wrong. Moaning, grunting, panting, and assorted "love oinks" are universal and a great sign that everything is working well. If you can make somebody speak in tongues, you're flying pretty high.
*Open Minded. OK, new BF has a strange request (insert whatever odd thing was first asked/suggested to you: toe sucking, golden shower, spanking etc etc etc). The following rules are
1. Will it kill/cripple you? (urine is sterile BTW) if not, why not give it a go?
2. If you don't enjoy it, so what? You can do something else tomorrow. If you do like it, great, do it more often. (These same two rules apply to ordering strange food in restaurants)
*Have a plan. Using TV, romance novels, and anything else that gives you ideas...write them down. Chances are you'll live a long time and sex games or role-playing a great way to get creative (tuesday is oral sex and body-chocolate night, thursday is costumes and LARP). You never know what inspiration you'll find at the 2nd-hand clothes store. And you can even try your hand at homemade porn, bonus points for editing and multiple angles (most computers come with easy to use video-editing software these days and you can burn your own DVd afterwards!).
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