Thread: Do most women enjoy getting oral sex?

Cowboychuck-
I don't mean to sound b*tchy, but ravsoma is only 16 years old. And ravsoma, you shouldn't be having sex until you are a lot older. I KNOW it happens at a very young age ALL the time...trust me, I was your age over 20 years ago and I thought sex was not what everyone made it out to be. Years later I found out that it really is....with the RIGHT MAN!

cowboy-
you asked what a man could do to help her like it more....I read some of the other posts, either a woman likes it or doesn't.
I know you had some suggestions for me....so, with that said....if your wife truly hates oral and doesn't want it, then I would say you have to find another way to please her. IF it is technique (I would ask her), I know I don't like it rough....you might as well rub sandpaper on me....but when and IF my husband does it, I like it when he uses the tip of his tongue and just carresses me with it.....or teases me a little with it....if he starts to use his full on tongue and smashes his face in me, all good feelings go away. He tells me it is because he is so excited (which is great that he is excited, but not so great feeling).....anyway, this is only if it is technique that she doesn't like....slow and steady is usually the best way. If she just doesn't like it at all....I don't think she ever will...no matter what you do. It is all in the mind! Hope that helps a little.
Now if I could get my husband to do this more....and the porn and flipping around aren't going to do it. I just have to buck up and tell him I want it more....it is just one of those awkward conversations....he has no problem telling me he LOVES when I give him oral....and I tell him I love it too....but nothing ever happens. He is all talk about giving it to me, but no action. I have even said that too...in a non-threatening way...still NOTHING! UGH......

Ravsoma: Shoot, now I feel crappy. I didn't realize you're that young!
You're still just an innocent kid - and I don't mean that in a bad way. Keep your virginty until the right occasion. That will be when you're with the right person and it just seems the natural thing to do. Don't think you need to have sex because everyone around you say they've done it or you feel you need to keep up. If you do that, it won't be a nice experience and you'll end up regretting it (case in point what you went through before). It should feel like something you want to do with the person you're with. At your age it is also too easy to get drawn in by a guy a bit older who tells you that you have to "if you really love" me after knowing him only a short time. If he really loves you he won't force you into something you're not comfortable with. A lot of the guys I went to school with would take a girl somewhere then tell her she either had to put out or walk home. Afterwards of course they'd move on leaving the girl feeling cheap and dirty. Don't let someone coerce into you it... wait until the decisions is yours. Sorry if this comes across sounding like a parent thing - it's just that I now realize I'm old enough to be your dad and then some.

cowboy-
I felt the same way when I realized how young she is.
I have 3 daughters-21/19/14. I know the 2 older ones have already had sex, but hearing a 16 year old talking like that just freaked me out a little. I noticed another thread she had posted on about a girl that didn't know if she had an orgasm by intercourse and this 16 year old had posted back about it. As if she has tons of experience...that makes me somewhat sad. ravsome-you have a lot of years ahead of you...even though you have had sex, I hope you start to hold back and wait for a time when you are older and have found a loving man that will SHOW you what it is all about. I know at 16 I was VERY in love with my high school boyfriend (we were together for over 3 years) and the sex was so clumsy....it wasn't until years and years later that I realized what it was all about. Sorry to be another "parent" on here lecturing!