Thread: Do most women enjoy getting oral sex?

Originally Posted by tinkerbell930

I love it too. I wish my husband would do it more often. We have been together 3 years and he has done it maybe 5 times. I have pleased him orally so many times I can't even begin to count. I would love him to reciprocate and he always says he is going to, but never does. I don't know how to get him to do it more. I am very clean and have asked him if that is the problem. He has even said that he enjoys it, but just can't wait to "make love".
Why is it the women that the husbands love doing it, don't like it? So unfair!

Hey tinkerbell930-
I just love your closing/sign-off! That's all. Be Blessed!!!

Hello cowboychuck-
I can't speak for all women or even most - but the general consensus from all I have spoken to on the subject is YES!!! I enjoy it too, but don't prefer it over penetration. Be Blessed!!!

I like it, but there are rules to go by. I know that it has to be soon after a shower,(like to be squeaky clean) and I dont enjoy it unless i know the guy REALLY enjoys doing it. HAve you tried to see if there is anything making her unconfortable about it? Try removing the fears, if you enjoy it that much and show her you really like it.

My bf gave it to me a couple times and it was great but then I told him I didn't want him to do it anymore because I thought he only did it because he though he had to. I don't know if that's what he really thought, but now I wish I hadn't told him not to because I miss it. I don't know how to let him know that I wish he would again.

I love it!! It is really the only way for me to reach orgasm! I wish my boyfriend did it more often!!

mystique83:

Hey, if you want him to again simply tell him that you did enjoy it and that you like when he does it. Let him know that you just don't want him to feel he "has to ". If he's like most guys, he'll "jump" at the chance.

Ya know...I never really cared for it...but then one day my husband just figured it out...and OMG...it is the most AWESOME orgams EVER....truly...as soon as he starts to go down on me...I'm smiling from ear to ear before he even starts because I know whats coming...and I climax every time....he loves making me go that way too...it's awesome!

For me, it's one of those things that, 'even if it's bad, it's good.' I love it. In fact, my husband doesn't do it enough! I will admit though, that there was a time where I was kind of uncomfortable with it. My reason was because I had been sexually abused as a child. Now, my abstinence from oral sex was pretty short lived once I found a partner that made me feel comfortable, and felt reassured that he was enjoying it to- not to mention once I realized how good it felt!! I can't speak for all women or anything, but I have known some that didn't like it. Most of them, I found, didn't like it because they felt really self-conscious about their body or concerned as to whether their partner actually enjoyed it or was doing it because they felt they had to. I have also known some the felt uncomfortable with it because of rigid up-bringings, and the self-implicated idea that it was 'un-clean' or barbaric. I had a neighbor once who had tried to tell me that oral sex was something that promiscuous people did, and that no self-respecting person would give or receive oral sex. Yeah... right. My vote is PRO oral sex. I love giving and receiving, but it's not for everyone...

I love-love-love it when my boyfriend goes down on me. It's amazing. In fact, I've never had a guy go down on me where it wasn't amazing!! I've only ever had an O with my current boyfriend, though.
He's quite forthcoming with it, too. Lucky me! It doesn't usually last long, though ... once he gets me going, I just want sex ^_^
But as a rule, I don't expect oral sex from men. I've gone down on a girl and it was unpleasant to me, not something I'd ever like to repeat, and it's like forcing a woman to give head if she finds it distasteful! (Unless he's just being selfish and doesn't have a problem with it.) Of course, if I'm not getting mine, I'm less giving to him :P
How do you all feel about manual stimulation? Like fingering? I hated it before I lost my virginity, but I'm warming up to it now.