Thread: need advice!! Im freaking out!

well Ive been really worried since last night...
well here is the story.. usually when me and my boyfriend have sex of course he gets really hard but his penis is really big its like a 9 and when we have sex he puts it all the way in and it hurts me when he does that because I feel like it goes very deep on me and it kinda hurts but it feels good usually. Well last night we had sex and he did the same thing and at first it didn't really hurt it actually felt good and then we stopped and did it again, like 4 times until the last time but this time we kept going even though it was hurting my lower abdomen and when we were done OH MY GOD my lower abdomen hurt so much i couldn't even walk right! it felt like if i had A HUGE CRAMP!! and it kept hurting for like half an hour until I thought maybe I need to go pee and I did and it kinda stopped but not really and this morning it doesn't really hurt but I have like little pains they come and go and I'm just worried like if he went too up there or if he hurt me or something because he told me it was maybe because we kept going and that maybe I'm sore but I really dont think so because I've never felt that type of pain I just need advise IM FREAKING OUT!!! well thanks for your time and any advise would be good! any questions please ask! oh and we did use protection.

You said that your bf is 9". Most vaginas are just not long enough to fit that much penis comfortably. I would think that your cervix has taken a pretty bad pounding (seriously) and it may be bruised. He needs to slow down and make sure that you're ok otherwise you could be hurt many more times. See your doctor to have your cervix checked. Have a look at this thread. Hope it makes things a bit clearer.


http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...th-vagina.html

thank you very much alibaby !!!!! Oh my god that really did help me! at first I was really freaking out and I was really worried! Thank you for you time and your really good advice! Thanks! Im going to talk to myboyfriend about it!

You're welcome. Take it easy!

Originally Posted by steph*

well Ive been really worried since last night...
well here is the story.. usually when me and my boyfriend have sex of course he gets really hard but his penis is really big its like a 9 and when we have sex he puts it all the way in and it hurts me when he does that because I feel like it goes very deep on me and it kinda hurts but it feels good usually. Well last night we had sex and he did the same thing and at first it didn't really hurt it actually felt good and then we stopped and did it again, like 4 times until the last time but this time we kept going even though it was hurting my lower abdomen and when we were done OH MY GOD my lower abdomen hurt so much i couldn't even walk right! it felt like if i had A HUGE CRAMP!! and it kept hurting for like half an hour until I thought maybe I need to go pee and I did and it kinda stopped but not really and this morning it doesn't really hurt but I have like little pains they come and go and I'm just worried like if he went too up there or if he hurt me or something because he told me it was maybe because we kept going and that maybe I'm sore but I really dont think so because I've never felt that type of pain I just need advise IM FREAKING OUT!!! well thanks for your time and any advise would be good! any questions please ask! oh and we did use protection.

Yes, I have had that happened. I finally asked my doctor about it and she said that just like a man grows, so do we as we become aroused. So ... I would guess that since it never hurt before that maybe recently you haven't been aroused like usual. Also ... as for the pain ... OMG ... i hear ya!! I was so embarrassed at first ... that I didn't say anything to my b/f. I ended up in tears finally from the pain! I forget what he is hitting when it goes in too deep ... but it isn't anything that won;t get better on it's own. And yes ... it hurts to pee for a while.

Oh ... and just like men ... we come in different sizes as well ... apparently I am "shorter" than most .... so I have to be really careful if I date a large guy. Ig you can normally take a 9 inch'er ... I am jelous!! LOL

hello if this still happens you should see a doctor tho because i have cervical cancer and cists and it hurts what i have sex some times not all the times but some times so if it keeps happening go in and get checked!