Thread: are men too demanding?

i want to know from a man's point of view, are we too demanding in expecting out female partners to deep throat and swallow..does it repulse women? are you expected to do it? or do most women truly enjoy the act?

from a woman's point of view: too demanding.

Originally Posted by dr.mansview

i want to know from a man's point of view, are we too demanding in expecting out female partners to deep throat and swallow..does it repulse women? are you expected to do it? or do most women truly enjoy the act?

I never thought it was too demanding. I mean, he respected me in every aspect, so I felt somewhat obliged (and happy) to do what I could for him.

Originally Posted by dr.mansview

i want to know from a man's point of view, are we too demanding in expecting out female partners to deep throat and swallow..does it repulse women? are you expected to do it? or do most women truly enjoy the act?

Some women like it, some don't. I enjoy it as it turns men on so much, so in turn it turns me on a lot. But I don't like it when it is requested every single time, that gets a bit too much and then doesn't turn me on so much.

Deep throat is not that easy, particularly if a man is quite big, it can be less of a turn on.

I have a very strong gag reflex so I really cant deep throat even if I want to. I agree with Irelandlover that I really enjoy giving him bj's because I enjoy him enjoying himself and that is a huge turn on for me. But it is only ever foreplay. He never expects me to spend ages doing it and he is not selfish at all. In fact he will turn down a bj completely if we are not in the 69 position so that he can touch me too. With a man like that you really dont mind.

Originally Posted by I_Have_Questions

from a woman's point of view: too demanding.

I agree.

i like it! has long as i am in charge! i decide how deep it goes into my mouth that way i can control my gag reflex.

Swallowing doesn't bother me,as long as the guy lets me know he's fixing to come.I would honestly rather hurry up and swallow it then to hold it in my mouth until i can spit it out which makes it to where i have to taste it longer...I've always wondered though why do guys want you to swallow? as for deep throating...I honestly don't what would be considered deepthroating...

I have read that garlic, brussel sprouts, cabbage and cauliflower make the semen taste bad, while cinnamon and something else that esacpes my memory is supposed to make it nice.
Can't speak from experience, though.

pineapple is the other one!

although i swallow i do not taste it! i just take it to the back of my mouth and swallow! if it does'nt touch the tongue you won't taste it!