Can't Orgasm

Gemini · 08-23-2007, 07:20 AM

I hope someone out there can give me some advice. My boyfriend and I have a healthy sex life but I have one problem. I can't reach orgasm with penetration. I have no problem with manual stimulation of oral sex but I just can't seem to reach orgasm with penetration alone. Any suggestions ?

Mandie Dawn · 08-24-2007, 02:09 PM

firstly, hon this isn?t unique to you, actually it's VERY common, it could be because his penis is not long or thick enough to reach your g-spot, or that your not aroused enough during intercourse. I can only suggest you might want to try some toys, dildo's or vibrators for example, if you don't want to use toys try being on top so you can get deeper penetration or doggy style for the same reason

i hope this helped some

**Ravsoma** · 08-24-2007, 10:43 PM

Maybe you just can't orgasm that way.

confusedwife · 08-25-2007, 07:20 PM

I agree with the others, I cant orgasm that way either, something like 1 out of 3 women are "clitoral orgasmers." Its understandable too, because the clit has Millons of nerves, while inside have drastically less, except for the g spot.

ladyinred9 · 08-27-2007, 03:59 PM

Have you tried being on top? Usually women can achieve orgasms by a rubbing motion on top. I have only been able to do this a few times....men are not as patient as women!!!

**addictedto being pregnant** · 08-29-2007, 02:09 PM

[quote=Mandie Dawn;17021]firstly, hon this isn’t unique to you, actually it's VERY common, it could be because his penis is not long or thick enough to reach your g-spot)
this is very true it happen to me with my first boyfriend but my second hits it just right i worried at first but there is nothin to worry about all i can say is sex first fingers or tounge to finish hope it help

08-23-2007, 07:20 AM	#1
Gemini Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Cape Town Posts: 1	Can't Orgasm I hope someone out there can give me some advice. My boyfriend and I have a healthy sex life but I have one problem. I can't reach orgasm with penetration. I have no problem with manual stimulation of oral sex but I just can't seem to reach orgasm with penetration alone. Any suggestions ?

08-29-2007, 02:09 PM	#6
addictedto being pregnant VIP Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: norwich Posts: 40	hi [quote=Mandie Dawn;17021]firstly, hon this isn’t unique to you, actually it's VERY common, it could be because his penis is not long or thick enough to reach your g-spot) this is very true it happen to me with my first boyfriend but my second hits it just right i worried at first but there is nothin to worry about all i can say is sex first fingers or tounge to finish hope it help

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08-24-2007, 02:09 PM	#2
Mandie Dawn Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 14	firstly, hon this isn?t unique to you, actually it's VERY common, it could be because his penis is not long or thick enough to reach your g-spot, or that your not aroused enough during intercourse. I can only suggest you might want to try some toys, dildo's or vibrators for example, if you don't want to use toys try being on top so you can get deeper penetration or doggy style for the same reason i hope this helped some

08-24-2007, 10:43 PM	#3
Ravsoma October 2007 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 582	Maybe you just can't orgasm that way.

08-25-2007, 07:20 PM	#4
confusedwife Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 6	I agree with the others, I cant orgasm that way either, something like 1 out of 3 women are "clitoral orgasmers." Its understandable too, because the clit has Millons of nerves, while inside have drastically less, except for the g spot.

08-27-2007, 03:59 PM	#5
ladyinred9 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 26	Have you tried being on top? Usually women can achieve orgasms by a rubbing motion on top. I have only been able to do this a few times....men are not as patient as women!!!