Thread: Swallowing - does anyone really like it?

Love going down on my husband but...I'm a catch and spit girl I will follow the advice given about changing his diet and possibly give it another try. After being together 20 years I might shock him.

I hate it. I think it's gross and won't do it. I tried a couple times but I don't even get it to my throat before I"m spitting it back up. Just thinking about it makes me gag... BARF..

What's the deal about women swallowing a man's semen? It's up to EACH woman. If she likes it, wants to do it, fine...if not, fine. It doesn't MATTER!!!! IT has NOTHING to do with good sex and intimacy. Totally nothing. When a guy insists that a woman swallow his semen, it's the equivalent of saying he's "marking her as his"...why would he insist on this? It's ridiculous. Let him swallow his own if it's so important. Let the woman do what she wants, for gosh sakes.

Originally Posted by LSL222

What's the deal about women swallowing a man's semen? It's up to EACH woman. If she likes it, wants to do it, fine...if not, fine. It doesn't MATTER!!!! IT has NOTHING to do with good sex and intimacy. Totally nothing. When a guy insists that a woman swallow his semen, it's the equivalent of saying he's "marking her as his"...why would he insist on this? It's ridiculous. Let him swallow his own if it's so important. Let the woman do what she wants, for gosh sakes.

...Why are you getting so worked up? It's only semen.

Originally Posted by Ravsoma

...Why are you getting so worked up? It's only semen.

...and it was just a question. No one here has said you should or shouldn't do it or like it. I think, at some point, this subject must have left a bad taste in your mouth (pardon the pun). Glad you got to vent!

Hi OneWomanMan-
This is one of those things I have not done yet. It seems so intimate an act. I don't get turned on by the prospect or even think of it as appealing, however, I am curious. When I do finally do it I will have to be really into him. Be Blessed!!!

hi i LOVE the taste i swallow every time its better than sweets

Originally Posted by inquisitive1

Hi OneWomenMan-
Not that I ask you to speak for all men, but how does having this done rate in general in your experience? Do men prefer it? If it's done does it make the oral a better sensation for the man? Does one get a better lover rating for doing it? Are women who do this more likely to be considered, "a keeper" sexually? Be Blessed!!!

Hi inquisitive,

In my view, actually "swallowing" isn't a big deal. The issue for me is heightened stimulation through the orgasm. When the oral stimulation stops just before orgasm, it tends to take away from the sensation. Now this is not always the case, and recently my wife and I have been experimenting with olive oil with some...um...may I say...mind-blowing results!

As for other men - the decent ones that is - I imagine there is probably some sense that if a woman swallows it signifies she is really "in to" the guy. Plus, it makes cleanup afterward easier.

I'll add a disclaimer - I've been married faithfully to my wife for over 20 years and I don't talk about sex with my guy friends. So, my ability to answer this question knowledgeably for other men is very limited.