happy_squid

Hi there. I have been married a little over a year, and my husband and I are still trying to get the mechanics of intercourse down.

Tonight we tried doggy-style, because I think being on my knees is hot. I guess I always figured this stuff would be self-explanatory, but it is most decidedly not. I cannot for the life of me figure out how that is supposed to work, the pure mechanics of it all.

I was trying to guide him, but he could only get in like one inch before he hit my pelvic bone. He suggested my butt was too far up in the air, so I tried to drop down, but at that point it was too late-- it hurt. It's a bit tough because I don't really have a physical map in my head of how my vagina is oriented in space when I'm on my knees--I've never really been good with those spatial reasoning quizzes anyways.

So, really--how does this work? I'd just like a breakdown of how we get Tab A into Slot B when he's coming from behind, because neither of us can for the life of us figure it out. We had fun trying, though!

My second question is rather simple. I've heard many women can't have orgasm from intercourse alone, but I know it's possible for some, and I'm willing to try new things. I'd love to be able to do this. So far I enjoy intercourse and get all breathy from it, but I can't get off without manual stimulation. So any advice you might have in this regard would be most appreciated.

Thanks very much and have a nice day.

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addictedto being pregnant

hi ummm well i dont know wot to say but if i was u i would try a lot of different postions if it hurt try a different way and r u a virgin coz if u r it will hurt

Borden

Maybe your concentrating to much on moving the back end to adjust to him to much. I know when I do it that way I have to adjust my whole body and not just my rear end. Work your arms muscles a little and try to lower the top part down a little more. Also as you adjust your man will need to also. Maybe he needs to adjust how he is thrusting in/out which that could be making it hurt. Adjust your positions and have him start slow and see how it feels and if it hurts then you can move around and if it feels good then he can go faster/harder. Maybe try being on top off him backwards when he is lying down or even in a chair (this is my favorite position, you have all the control, but he can still touch you) first because doing doggie style, maybe this will get you two familiar with your bodies in a non missionary position. It's sounds like your willing to find some new and fun position so just have some fun and eventually you'll be giving advice out.

Ravsoma

You're over thinking sex. It's supposed to be fun, but you're making it into rocket science. T_T

The best position is like doggy-style, but you're head down and butt up. ^_^ Best thing ever...Not like I would know.

Also, get a G-spot stimulator and see if you can squirt using that. If you can, you can tell your husband exactly what to do. ^_^

Little

Oh my God, I just started having doggy style sex and it is amazing I have no clue how it works, though. I just let him do it.
He usually asks me to drop my back and lift my butt. It's sort of like a yoga stance. I'm really small inside, so I've got to stay in that first position the whole time or it will hurt (not like those women in porn who can just stay on all fours ... how they do it, I'll never know.)
The missionary position doesn't usually stimulate the clitoris, which is the problem with orgasming from it. Doggy style does a little, but it mostly stimulates the G-spot, which some women find uncomfortable (because it makes some women feel like they have to pee) so just experiment with different positions, like everyone else has said, and direction of thrusting, and you might be able to orgasm just from intercourse

future_present11

This might be too graphic but it helped me alot cause it also hurt me to when i first tried doggy-style ... but have him lay on his back and straddle him backwards facing his feet grab his ankles and lean forward... this should get you used to the feel for him being behind you... then have him lean up to an almost sitting postion.. get used to that..then you can have him enter you in from behind while your on your fours... and you should be used to the feel... you could also lay on your stomach with him behind... sorry for being graphic... just trying to help.....

Remember its just advice but hopefully it will work.... GOOD LUCK