Ever heard of a male chastity device?

Loris1 · 08-31-2007, 02:37 AM

My girlfriend has come up with the idea of putting me in a chastity device - an unremovable tube which goes you know where. I was wondering if this idea is getting more common? Have you ever heard of this? What is your thoughts. It's certainly making me more attentive to her needs - no bad thing, and she is very much enjoying her control

Thanks

Loris

**ChelseaRenee** · 08-31-2007, 10:11 PM

Yes, I've heard of it. I've seen one, on an internet joke site, but the product was real. All I can say is, whatever floats your boat. I think it's terribly creepy, but hey. To each his own.

pjc · 07-13-2008, 10:15 PM

IT WORKS AND SHOULD BE STUDIED MORE. For get the kinky stuff. There is a real and meaningful purpose of Male Chastity. I believe it will become very popular as soon as the public learns more about it. Solid Strong Stable relationships only. If you are using it b/c of fear of infidility - there are problems that only therapy can assist with. Male Chastity devices help men focus on all of the right things.... It must be used by Women who truley understand and respect the differences of men and women. We have just touched the tip of the ice berg. Live it promote it accept it!!!

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 07-14-2008, 03:58 AM

Um, I'll pass.

I mean I guess I'll try anything once... but....

**jonny** · 07-14-2008, 08:16 AM

Uhhh.......That is some off stuff.

I remember reading once that these are used in certain type of relashionships. lol

Specifically cuckolding ones.

Ewww.........................

**Fire(m)** · 07-14-2008, 12:19 PM

I think that nobody has a right to control anybody else. Particularly with regard to their sexuality. Man or woman. Just my 2c
Cheers.

**Uneeklyme** · 07-14-2008, 02:00 PM

They are mainly used in S&M or BDSM relationships where the male is the submissive. I know of one couple where the man would orgasm without any consideration for his wife. (Wham Bam Thank You Mam) She got fed up with it and came up with the idea to use one. Orgasm denial for him until he could learn to please her. She set the rules and he agreed to them. He was to wear the chastity belt until he had given her a dozen orgasms. She didn't have multiple orgasms either. He got the jist in the end. He actually loved it and twice a year they would play the same game so to speak.

I think it sounds like fun if both parties are interested and willing.

I agree with pjc tho. If its being suggested for reasons like fear of infedelity... forget it. There are bigger issues in that situation than him masterbating or cheating.

LoverofSEX · 07-14-2008, 03:15 PM

I have just been reading about them and it sounds kind of exciting in a way. I wonder if it comes with a leash and a ridding crop as well.

It would diffidently be the "I am in control, and when I am ready, I will let you have pleasure" what would be worse is putting it on and then be forced to view some really hard porn or live action, now that would be cruel....

pjc · 07-14-2008, 07:02 PM

I have known about male chastity for quite sometime. There are REAL PRODUCTS (ignore the funky kinky stuff) out there that work very well and cannot be seen under clothing. I honestly believe that male chastity should be practiced by more women and their consenting men. Men are thinking about sex quite a bit. They are getting aroused all the time, whether it is their wife or a co-worker or a brief look at women at a coffee shop or even a brief glance of a magazine cover. This does not mean that he is an animal and cannot control himself. This is part of their wiring. It does not mean that w/o a chastity device he would do something (infidelity or fanaticize too much). It also does not mean w/o chastity he would not be attentive to his wife’s needs. What it does mean is that he stays very focused focused focused. Focused on what is supposed to be taking place at that very moment whether at the office or at home cleaning the gutters making dinner etc. When aroused at anytime he will never be able to become erect which will cause him to fight his feelings of sexual mind wondering. During this moment of physical and mental exercise he will feel the pressure and sometimes pain associated with being bound. The pressure reminds him of his wife being with him at all times - essentially it is like he is getting a hug and a sense of belonging. He will be reminded of the KEY HOLDER, his wife. This reminder is not of submissive and dominate situation it is a reminder of a team relationship. He cannot help but think of her.
Masturbation is a big topic too. We all know that men masturbate. Why do men masturbate??? This is easy to understand: (these are facts)
1. cannot communicate or afraid to communicate desire
2. fantasizing over other women
3. fantasizing over things his wife will not do
4. out of resentment
5. selfish personal pleasure
6. just wants to empty himself out
All reasons are Inappropriate and very Selfish!!! Masturbation changes a man’s attitude. For instance when has a man ever masturbated and then went and cuddled with his wife and told her how much he loves and adores her? Get the point and there are many more points to be made. A chastity device will stop this!!! Again keeping him focused focused focused. A man should NEVER CUM W/O HIS WIFE being a part of it. I do not need to go into detail here; there are countless ways for a significant other to have her man cum, from the very kinky to the sweet and subtle. He will be forced to figure out how to communicate, of course with your guidance and support......
There is much more to write about Male Chastity, all of which is logical, respectful, and loving. I will start with what I wrote and will continue if there is interest.

Other topics concerning male chastity that need to be discussed:
The after orgasm difference between men and women
The day to day norms that each person must feel and give, respect, love, adoration, etc
Communication
Sexual frustration /energy and how to harness it, for truley empowering both parties
Psychological health of both partners and of the relationship
How to introduce your husband or significant other to male chastity
More.........

**anonymouswhitefemale** · 07-14-2008, 07:04 PM

OK, so now I'm convinced this character is just trying to sell chastity devices.

You're not going to make any friends by posting the same body of texts in lots of threads and not answering things....

Get off....

08-31-2007, 02:37 AM	#1
Loris1 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: UK Posts: 23	Ever heard of a male chastity device? My girlfriend has come up with the idea of putting me in a chastity device - an unremovable tube which goes you know where. I was wondering if this idea is getting more common? Have you ever heard of this? What is your thoughts. It's certainly making me more attentive to her needs - no bad thing, and she is very much enjoying her control Thanks Loris

07-14-2008, 07:02 PM	#9
pjc Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	more about male chastity I have known about male chastity for quite sometime. There are REAL PRODUCTS (ignore the funky kinky stuff) out there that work very well and cannot be seen under clothing. I honestly believe that male chastity should be practiced by more women and their consenting men. Men are thinking about sex quite a bit. They are getting aroused all the time, whether it is their wife or a co-worker or a brief look at women at a coffee shop or even a brief glance of a magazine cover. This does not mean that he is an animal and cannot control himself. This is part of their wiring. It does not mean that w/o a chastity device he would do something (infidelity or fanaticize too much). It also does not mean w/o chastity he would not be attentive to his wife’s needs. What it does mean is that he stays very focused focused focused. Focused on what is supposed to be taking place at that very moment whether at the office or at home cleaning the gutters making dinner etc. When aroused at anytime he will never be able to become erect which will cause him to fight his feelings of sexual mind wondering. During this moment of physical and mental exercise he will feel the pressure and sometimes pain associated with being bound. The pressure reminds him of his wife being with him at all times - essentially it is like he is getting a hug and a sense of belonging. He will be reminded of the KEY HOLDER, his wife. This reminder is not of submissive and dominate situation it is a reminder of a team relationship. He cannot help but think of her. Masturbation is a big topic too. We all know that men masturbate. Why do men masturbate??? This is easy to understand: (these are facts) 1. cannot communicate or afraid to communicate desire 2. fantasizing over other women 3. fantasizing over things his wife will not do 4. out of resentment 5. selfish personal pleasure 6. just wants to empty himself out All reasons are Inappropriate and very Selfish!!! Masturbation changes a man’s attitude. For instance when has a man ever masturbated and then went and cuddled with his wife and told her how much he loves and adores her? Get the point and there are many more points to be made. A chastity device will stop this!!! Again keeping him focused focused focused. A man should NEVER CUM W/O HIS WIFE being a part of it. I do not need to go into detail here; there are countless ways for a significant other to have her man cum, from the very kinky to the sweet and subtle. He will be forced to figure out how to communicate, of course with your guidance and support...... There is much more to write about Male Chastity, all of which is logical, respectful, and loving. I will start with what I wrote and will continue if there is interest. Other topics concerning male chastity that need to be discussed: The after orgasm difference between men and women The day to day norms that each person must feel and give, respect, love, adoration, etc Communication Sexual frustration /energy and how to harness it, for truley empowering both parties Psychological health of both partners and of the relationship How to introduce your husband or significant other to male chastity More.........

07-14-2008, 07:04 PM	#10
anonymouswhitefemale May 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,419 Blog Entries: 2	OK, so now I'm convinced this character is just trying to sell chastity devices. You're not going to make any friends by posting the same body of texts in lots of threads and not answering things.... Get off.... Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 07-15-2008 at 04:45 AM. Reason: In-correct post edited

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08-31-2007, 10:11 PM	#2
ChelseaRenee Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 288	Yes, I've heard of it. I've seen one, on an internet joke site, but the product was real. All I can say is, whatever floats your boat. I think it's terribly creepy, but hey. To each his own.

07-13-2008, 10:15 PM	#3
pjc Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 8	IT WORKS AND SHOULD BE STUDIED MORE. For get the kinky stuff. There is a real and meaningful purpose of Male Chastity. I believe it will become very popular as soon as the public learns more about it. Solid Strong Stable relationships only. If you are using it b/c of fear of infidility - there are problems that only therapy can assist with. Male Chastity devices help men focus on all of the right things.... It must be used by Women who truley understand and respect the differences of men and women. We have just touched the tip of the ice berg. Live it promote it accept it!!!

07-14-2008, 03:58 AM	#4
anonymouswhitefemale May 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,419 Blog Entries: 2	Um, I'll pass. I mean I guess I'll try anything once... but....

07-14-2008, 08:16 AM	#5
jonny Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Memphis Posts: 123	Uhhh.......That is some off stuff. I remember reading once that these are used in certain type of relashionships. lol Specifically cuckolding ones. Ewww.........................

07-14-2008, 12:19 PM	#6
Fire(m) Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 290	I think that nobody has a right to control anybody else. Particularly with regard to their sexuality. Man or woman. Just my 2c Cheers.

07-14-2008, 02:00 PM	#7
Uneeklyme Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Montana Posts: 305	They are mainly used in S&M or BDSM relationships where the male is the submissive. I know of one couple where the man would orgasm without any consideration for his wife. (Wham Bam Thank You Mam) She got fed up with it and came up with the idea to use one. Orgasm denial for him until he could learn to please her. She set the rules and he agreed to them. He was to wear the chastity belt until he had given her a dozen orgasms. She didn't have multiple orgasms either. He got the jist in the end. He actually loved it and twice a year they would play the same game so to speak. I think it sounds like fun if both parties are interested and willing. I agree with pjc tho. If its being suggested for reasons like fear of infedelity... forget it. There are bigger issues in that situation than him masterbating or cheating.

07-14-2008, 03:15 PM	#8
LoverofSEX Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 25	I have just been reading about them and it sounds kind of exciting in a way. I wonder if it comes with a leash and a ridding crop as well. It would diffidently be the "I am in control, and when I am ready, I will let you have pleasure" what would be worse is putting it on and then be forced to view some really hard porn or live action, now that would be cruel....