lol ** ur game but I guess man but i'll take what u said in stride 4sure as far as my language go they were some broads and I contributed in taking advantage of that and it was wrong that why I made this thread I want to make sure I have the equipment to pleasure a woman properly as opposed to just getting mine and ********K you thats not the way as I get older I want to end up on some charlie sheen ********
I am not mad at you either, Actually I am proud of you.
1) For admitting that you are " hurting in your Soul ".
2) For Cleaning up your Language ( mostly ) lol, when it comes to Women.
3) For really wanting to change and realizing that how you treated Women was Wrong.
So here you have 3 good Beginnings to the Changes you want to make in yourself
As Liz said, treat others as you want to be treated, with respect. Try to think of them as People, Humans of a different Gender, that have feelings. Start anew, Start Now, make a Challenge/ Goal for yourself every Week.
Say the first Challenge/ Goal is your language. One it's a Penis, not a D**ck. Two you don't Bone Chicks, You make Love to and with them. Learn to Think like a Gentleman, one your Mother would be Proud of. When speaking to or about Women, Imagine Your Mom is in the Room, even if she isn't, you can still imagine her there and how you would talk in front of her.
I'd bet you wouldn't be saying I Boned a Chick, or had a Train with a couple of Broads .. Lol. Think also of how you would feel if some Guy talked that way or even thought that way about your Mom, " Hey I Boned her, she was a Good Piece of *** ".
I'm sure it would be Fighting words in your mind and if your Mom had heard, she be Hurt and Embarrassed that she was thought of that way. So Start with your own Thinking, deep inside and realize that the way you perceive things, will show in your actions and words.
Hey Hun, give it a try at least. Once you have faith in yourself, that you can Change Yourself, you will be able to change and Grow into a Man, some woman, will Love, Cherish and Respect.
Just one step at a time. That's all it takes.
You may fail at first and regress, but if you keep trying. You will succeed . And we are here for Support and to help you.
Lets Start on your next Post or Reply, and for the next week..I'll be your " Teacher " that Grades and Guides you
1)Watch your Language and try to find more Polite and Respectful Words to use.
2) Read some other sections that are Not about SEX, and Post something helpful or Positive in them, so others can see and Feel that you have Good Qualities and Experiences to Share
3) In Real Life, I want you to try and keep count of the Not so Polite or Respectful Words and Thoughts you use.Try to be Honest, if you catch yourself saying the F Bomb every few Minutes, keep a mental list ( Count ) or even carry a lil Paper or small Tablet ( the lil Note kind ). Put a Slash every time. Every night count them and total them for the day. Try to have a Lower Count the Next day, and the day after and so on.
******This will include thoughts of " this Chick is Hot, I'd like to Bang her ". If you can Change your thoughts from that to " This Gal is so Pretty, I'd like to get to Know her as a Person". Eventually you will learn to retrain yourself and Behavior.
It will SHOW in the Long run.
Wanna Try it ? I'm Game .