Thread: Are these feelings normal?

Oh Dr. Mansview, your "picture" is so dashing. What a handsome guy you are...

why thank you "poisongirl"..what you can't see in the picture is that i am holding my carrot..

I read this one time and it stuck with me: that one constant among the many cultures of the earth is sexual jealousy. Everybody experiences it, everywhere, so be very careful with experimentation "out of the box", unless you just don't care about your partner that much. Otherwise, it may not be worth the pain, and that's not prudishness talking. We're apparently wired that way; I am anyway. Don't touch my woman, I won't touch yours (fantasy is just fantasy).

I don't think you're bi-sexual or even bi-curious. It's true, no one is 100% of anything. I'm sorry your partner is giving you a hard time, for heaven's sake, you're exclusive with him.

I don't know if he likes any kind of anal play (sorry about the topic but I have a point) but if he does you can always point out that you don't think he's gay because he likes a finger/tongue/carrot in that area.

I love women, and I will NEVER be sexual with one because although I find our bodies to be absolutely beautiful, I have no desire to have another woman kissing me or any of my parts. I will still joke with my husband, wow, I wouldn't throw her out of bed, etc., when we're looking at Marissa Miller in the Victoria's Secret catalogue or seeing some girl on Entourage or something, but that's because I can appreciate another woman's body. Heck, I think Ellen DeGeneres is sexy! But I'm strictly ****ly.

I hope you don't lose him over this issue, because unfortunately it is his issue and not one you can control. Its just insecurity... nothing but time is going to make him get over it.