Thread: I need more imput

Hi everyone I've just recently posted about this same issue, but I've only had one reply...............I need more

So here it is, i've been with my bf for 7 years, and just found out he's been looking at porn. Not just any porn ASIAN porn. Im not an asian and I dont look anything like an asian. Im confused and hurt because I dont understand why he'd be attracted to something totally different than me.

I would'nt have had a problem if I found a variety of porn, but having just of one kind made me feel that he wants an asian.

It isn't the first time I questioned jim about him liking asians. There was a day when we got into a fight we went our seperate ways (for the night!) The next day I looked at his phone log I NEVER DO, but something that day told me to. I saw he'd made a call to strange phone number in the middle of the morning say 5:30 a.m, anyway I called the number back and what do you know A GIRL picks up. I immediately hang up. I asked what he called that number so early? I can see the blood from his face vanish. He lied at first, finally I got him to spill the beans, he said he got the number from the famous "CRAIGSLIST" click erotic. That tore me apart I checked what he looked at. Yeah, it was all different but, he called an ASIAN. WHY? An overweight (no offense anyone) older, ghetto, dirty looking asian. Ever since that day It has been in the back of mind he likes asians.

Now, from what you've heard Does he like asians?

What is it about asian porn that men like?

Thanks everyone

most asians girls that i've met or seen, seem to look younger than they really are..a 23 year old may look 15..most asian women are small breasted, perhaps he likes the young teenager type..if so i would keep an eye on him..

Well he must like you because he has been with you for so long. Every1 has fantacies, the porn isnt the problem. What you should be bothered about is him ringing strange girls. if he is cheatin on you then you should call it a day. Ask him straight if anything has gone on with this other woman n see what he says....

thanks kay-tee-bee for writing back.

What I failed to mention is that I became a "crazy" gf and I checked the phone recods for that night. He made two calls and 1 of the calls was 1 minute and the other was 3minutes. Anyway so I called the woman back and asked her if anything happened with my bf. Weirdly she was very polite and told me that all he wanted to do was TALK! She told him that talking was not why she was on CRAIGSLIST for.

I made sure that there wasn't any other calls made that night.

What I'm still confused about is asians. what is it about asian porn?

Maybe it is just a weird fantasy he has for Asian girls, like some people have a fantasy about larger women? The "object" in the fantasy usually bears no resemblance to their partner because it is just that - a fantasy.

However, i do tend to agree with Kay-tee-bee, the porn isn't an issue. If he watches porn and its all asian maybe that's just his thing, his personal fantasy. The fact he rings these women I think would worry me more. Are these women escorts, chat-lines or what? I'm sorry but I am not familiar with CRAIGSLIST.

I hope this is off some help?