Thread: Is This Sick??? Thoughts Please

so ladies i was just wondering, i am a college student and when i go to parties i dance with girls. when i am grinding with them i happen to get a little aroused and get a boner. I was wondering if u could tell me what is a girl thinking? is she just outright disgusted or what? can u ladies help me shed some light on this question

what do u think gimme all ur thought suggestions comments concern

I, personally, would find it creepy and inappropriate. Although, I understand how it could happen.

Not neccesserly, some girls might find it a compliment that you are turned on by them. depends how obv it is and what the situation is

I would agree that this is one that is left up to the individual. Personally, I think I would find it flattering. Unless, of course, you were some nasty looking creep, but then- odds are that I wouldn't be dancing with you to begin with. I know there are plenty of girls that would be bothered/disgusted, and others that could get so turned on by it. I happen to fall into the latter category, but everyone is different. A lot of it could be influenced what she thinks of you as well, but that's NOT a method I would suggest for calibrating a girls' interest in you- cause you could scare her off.

if the girl is grinding against you as you say, she should not be to surprised if you pop one..she might be offended if nothing happened..

Isn't that the point of grinding?

If it was me, it would all depend on how I saw you:

If you are my guy-friend (platonic) I would probably giggle a bit and try to ignore it.

If I am attracted to you it would turn me on and make me think about acting on our arousal.

If I am not attracted to you and not really sure why we're even dancing, I would probably be grossed out and get away from you.

If you want to know what the girl is thinking, look at her face, her eyes. As long as shes not completely drunk, you will be able to tell.

you give men far too much credit..most men cannot tell what a girl is thinking by looking into her eyes..we are just not that perceptive naturally..i find it difficult to tell if a women is flirting with me unless she unbuttons her blouse..