Orgasm Question

**Lady Syrinx** · 07-08-2012 12:05 PM

In the past 6-8 weeks I've noticed a change in my orgasms. In the past I've had orgasm fairly regularly and squirted every now and then. Lately my husband and I have noticed that I'm squirting much more frequently.

Anyway I figured that I was having G-spot orgasms, so I decided to do some research. Most of the stuff I've seen has said that the G-Spot can't be stimulated through penetration. It needs stimulation with a finger or a vibrator.

If it's not a G-spot orgasm, is it simply attributed that we primarily use cowgirl positions?

**jns** · 07-08-2012 12:22 PM

You are probably squirting more because the two of you have got the technique worked out and you are more relaxed about it.

I don't believe that you should take the generalized information about G-spot orgasms. You are an individual and things may work different for you.

**sungem77** · 07-09-2012 03:08 PM

G spot orgasms can absloutley oocur from penetration as long as something is rubbing against your g spot, it willl be stimulated. Enjoy!

**Lady Syrinx** · 07-10-2012 08:15 PM

Thanks for the info! I'll have to tell hubby, it'll be a be a huge confidence boost for him. He went through some horrendous confidence issues during the Lexapro/Zoloft years. He tried to locate the G-spot with zero success locating it let alone get any reaction if he did.

http://www.womens-health.com/boards/...0653&noquote=1

**Maaz** · 07-11-2012 11:02 AM

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**Lady Syrinx** · 07-13-2012 04:09 PM

Hubby is quite proud of himself

I'm just curious if there are any factors, other than position, that contribute to our ability to have this happen on a regular basis?

**jns** · 07-13-2012 05:49 PM

Hubby should be proud of himself within reason. Find out from him what he is doing different? It may be that he is more in tune with what makes you tick sexually. On the other hand, he may be just lucky to be in the right place at the right time. That has never stopped anyone from claiming victory.

**Lady Syrinx** · 07-13-2012 09:33 PM

Originally Posted by jns

Hubby should be proud of himself within reason. Find out from him what he is doing different? It may be that he is more in tune with what makes you tick sexually. On the other hand, he may be just lucky to be in the right place at the right time. That has never stopped anyone from claiming victory.

I've asked, he says he's not sure what he's doing differently.

The only theory I have is that my body is just hyper-sensitive due the fact that I am no longer ingesting prescription meds that interfere with sex drive/response. We've been together for 19 years, I was on the pill for 10 years (1996-2006) and my history with anti-depressants is outlined in this post: Change in Sex Life.

**jns** · 07-14-2012 10:41 AM

Various medications can kill sex drive. What is interesting is that doctors rarely take into account a given medications side effects on sex drive and sexual sensitivity before or after prescribing that medication. Sex life alterations occur, usually not for the better. Then challenges to relationships occurs. All from prescribing one medication over another. Yes, one may be the best for a given individual and situation, but another may be good enough without the life altering side effects. Too much focus on a narrow understanding and not enough on the big picture.

Maybe you are not hypersensitive, but rather your libido is no longer depressed so it only seems as if your hypersensitive. Even without interference from medications, a persons libido is not constant, it has its ups and downs.

**Lady Syrinx** · 07-15-2012 01:07 PM

Originally Posted by jns

Various medications can kill sex drive. What is interesting is that doctors rarely take into account a given medications side effects on sex drive and sexual sensitivity before or after prescribing that medication. Sex life alterations occur, usually not for the better. Then challenges to relationships occurs. All from prescribing one medication over another. Yes, one may be the best for a given individual and situation, but another may be good enough without the life altering side effects. Too much focus on a narrow understanding and not enough on the big picture.

Maybe you are not hypersensitive, but rather your libido is no longer depressed so it only seems as if your hypersensitive. Even without interference from medications, a persons libido is not constant, it has its ups and downs.

I know all things are cyclical, and I'm on a serious upswing in this particular respect.

I guess I'm focused on an explanation because for so long hubby took the whole thing so personally. The more I maintained that It was a medication issue, the more he believed that I simply was no longer attracted to him or worse that it was his fault for being an inadequate lover. I think I was beginning to believe it too in some small part. So the explanation is to soothe my bruised ego as much, if not more, than his ego. That is not to say I'm not enjoying understatement of the year) the upswing