Definitely do not do either. I used to have him at least finish in my mouth and I would quickly spit it out but since my bf stuff has gotten chunky and thick there ain't no chance I will let him cum in my mouth again. The taste is also just too strong, potent salty chlorine taste? Oh and I also have a bit of a sensitivity to it because my throat goes tingly and numb. So all in all no thanks. The only reason I did it before was because he would constantly ask if I would so I just start to in order to stop all the begging. It was never a forced thing from him but is was nagging almost lol. The "well you should like it and love it because he wants you to" does not work with me. I would consider starting to do it again IF his stuff was not thick, not so chlorine smelling, and a lot more watery....oh and less volume but again all I would do is spit. But until then he is free to go on my body anywhere he likes except for the face.