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    Default How many women here enjoy giving oral sex?


    Just taking a general census here and seeing if anyone is like me. I've heard men say that women don't like giving bj's, don't get off on them, and that they only do it to please the man. I think that's rubbish. Sure, some women may not like it. But, not all women are the same. If there are men out there that love to ravish a woman, why is it hard to believe that a woman can feel the same?

    My body can respond when thinking about and performing oral sex. I'm not quite sure how to explain it, but there's something very exciting Giving the other person pleasure might be just one part of the equation, but I know it's an act that I enjoy very much myself. As far as "not being able to get off" when giving a blowjob as some men claim, rubbish again. You or the man can finger you while you're giving a blowjob, or you can use a toy.

    Just wondering if any of the other women feel the same way as me? I would be unhappy if I ended up with a man that didn't like receiving oral sex (yes, they exist).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magnetism View Post
    If there are men out there that love to ravish a woman, why is it hard to believe that a woman can feel the same?
    Ravish is an interesting word, some meanings are almost the opposite of others.
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    I used to really dig giving oral sex. Then I got old and had a baby and didn't have a lot of time for foreplay anymore. But no, you aren't alone. It is nice to see your partner really loving what you're doing, and it's nice to be really good at it (which is really no more difficult than having an enthusiasm for it, so I assume you are )

    I don't think I ever had a problem convincing a guy that I liked giving oral, they were always happy to believe. The disbelief that a woman could enjoy sharing pleasure sounds kinda misogynistic to me!
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    Thanks, Little. I would assume some guys just haven't met women that enjoy giving oral? I have a couple of good female friends that like it.


    Buddhaboy-Isn't it socially awkward to advertise that you love giving oral sex when you're just dating someone? I don't think most men know this fact about me until I know they really like me and want a relationship with me.

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    Giving oral is probably what I love most about sex. I find it empowering that I can have so much control over his pleasure. At one point in our relationship he was getting daily oral sex from me, and I've never asked for oral in return cause for one he doesn't seem to know what he's doing (or isn't interested in doing it at all) and two it's never done that much for me.

    But yes I enjoy giving oral greatly, and I have orgasmed with him from no physical stimulation from myself or him.
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    I do not love it but I guess I can say I like it, I am not the type to chase him around the house to do it or jump him when he gets home lol but I will do it if he asks. I know there are plenty of women around who do thoroughly enjoy it though so a man just has to hope he finds he is with one of those women.
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    My GF gives head like it's the elixir of eternal youth. I can't say I've got any complaints about that!
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    24 is practically dried up and one foot in the grave :P At least, it is when you have a baby who is constantly all over you. The baby taught me how to use the innurnets :3

    I am prettymuch in IAS's boat these days ... it's awright. You want it, I'll give it. But hurry up because the baby is going to wake up and I wanna get mine too.
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