dgirl07

welll i can make this short and sweet...my boyfriend has never really been into recieving or giving oral sex...well ive done it a few times and hes really enjoyed and therefore he is returning the favor a bit more often than he used to....the point of the story is. hes never been able to finish from me giving him oral sex or any previous girlfriends...and i really want to do that for him....any tips on how to give absolutely great oral sex?

anything is appreciated

thanks.

kermit

Here are some quick tips...

1) Make sure to avoid your teeth rubbing against him. It's painful and can push men away from climax.

2) The most sensitive part to triggering climax is stimulating the head, especially the front bottom side. Be sure to stimulate that area with the tongue.

3) Do not forget to stimulate the entire penis. If you cannot take it all in your mouth at one time, lick up and down it for a while.

4) If you have him in your mouth, use your hands to rub the base of the penis. Also press / rub on the area around the base of the penis, especially above it near the pubic bone.

Little

Synchronization, lubrication, and speed.
I use my dominant hand mostly with my mouth ... always synchronized. If they aren't, it's just confusing.
You don't have to suck. That's one easy way to tire yourself out. Just move up and down on it.
Get yourself in a comfortable position. For me, it's him sitting on the edge of the bed, or standing, and me sitting/kneeling on the floor. I have long hair and that gets it out of the way! He can lay back if he wants and it's a nice vantage point for both of you. He can watch and you can look at his face to see how great a job you're doing!
Find his spot. It could be along the bottom, along the side, around the edge of the head, wherever, and in the beginning tease him a little by licking it.
Good luck!

rcoreyus

Different men like different things, so there is no particular thing that always works. Some suggestions - from a guy:

Don't "go for the finish" immediately, too much of the same thing is desensitizing. Try not even touching his penis at first, work on other areas. The other areas he may like run a wide range, and are different for different men, but include: earlobes, neck, nipples, belly button, testicles, the area between the testicles and anus, anus. Stroke / lickthe above.

When you get down to business, use hands at the same time.

Deep throat looks visually impressive, but I'm told doesn't feel any better (my wife won't do any of this), so its probably not worth a lot of effort trying unless this is important to him.

Firmly rubbing the area between the testicles and anus while you are giving oral may work well. This area is sort of like an extension of the root of the penis and is sensitive in some men.

Some men are really aroused by performing oral. If so, 69 would work.

A little fantasy play in the bedroom can be fun.

A surprise job might be fun. Sometime when you are sittingon the sofa, after watching a particularly arousing scene in a movie, just go down on him without warning or preamble. (of course if you have kids or roommates this can be a bit awkward).

I hope he knows how lucky he is to have a girlfriend who wants to please him. I hope he puts as much effort into pleasing you.

amom

I believe the best oral sex is mutual, ie 69. But some folks get overexcited about oral sex and prefer to give it rather than receive it.

If you enjoy sucking his **** without reciprocity and do not feel he is shorting you then keep it up.

It is a means to an end - and I hope he is satisfying you in the end. That is what is important and will keep you together. Along with something called love.

joeschmoe

i really like it when my girlfriend is noisy when she gives head. it's important for me to feel like she is enjoying it. when she grunts and moans (even though we both know it's an act) it makes it so much hotter. she's very impatient when giving oral, so it helps that this really turns me on.

the last blowjob she gave me, i said to her "i want to cum in your mouth, and i want you to swallow it." she replied, "okay, that sounds like fun" and it made a huge difference. just knowing that she was eagerly participating makes oral sex such a great experience.