Thread: Doggystyle Sex hurts me...

I have sex with my man like maybe twice a week or once... We always do it, when he on top and I lay down... But when we tried doggy style it hurt when he was trying to put it in... Why does it hurt so much, and it's not even that his penis is big or long, because the penis doesn't even go all the way in, and it starts hurting real badly...

It's a strange angle; the way the woman is positioned makes her feel it more when he enters.
Try sloping your back as much as you can. Just stick your butt in the air and press your chest to the bed. That might help; don't try to do it on all fours like porn stars.

I love doggie. It is terribly erotic. Try going on all fours but bend your head and chest down towards the pillow leaning into it. That is great to start. Then while he is behind you way before entry in this hot position, have him stimulate you with his fingers and lick you out and do more fingering to get you juicy. The licking makes you really wet if you are not wet enough. If he is able to get it in and it is hitting the g-spot it is wild. If you are really getting into it and want more hot sensual pleasure raise yourself up a bit and have him grab each of your nipples and pinch them at the same time he is f***ing you. I love this so much that I hope when I die I am doing it.....Heck may be embarrassing for my family but what the heck. I will die with a large smile on my face.....

Haha! Caroline, you're so right.
In my cold, clinical explanation, I forgot to mention that doggy style is really to die for. You just have to get used to it.

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

I love doggie. It is terribly erotic. Try going on all fours but bend your head and chest down towards the pillow leaning into it. That is great to start. Then while he is behind you way before entry in this hot position, have him stimulate you with his fingers and lick you out and do more fingering to get you juicy. The licking makes you really wet if you are not wet enough. If he is able to get it in and it is hitting the g-spot it is wild. If you are really getting into it and want more hot sensual pleasure raise yourself up a bit and have him grab each of your nipples and pinch them at the same time he is f***ing you.

I love this so much that I hope when I die I am doing it.....Heck may be embarrassing for my family but what the heck. I will die with a large smile on my face.....

Hello CarolineWH-
I don't even know what to say?! Funny does not describe this post. And yet I have said it too. Ah, happy memories. For me it is from behind on my tummy with my breast in his hands, his weight on me, and the warmth of his breath in my ear and on my neck, while he is hitting that g-spot. Yeah that's the ticket!

My wife and i would do "woof" all the time but after our second child something happened.She said it also hurts now its only stomach down and it seems kinda detached for me. Not complaining though because I am an ASSMan.

Maybe somethings out of alignment or you are tweaking a muscle or nerve, especially if it's only in one position. Maybe get checked out by a chiropractor or physical therapist to see if everything is correct.

Originally Posted by Little

It's a strange angle;

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Try sloping your back as much as you can. Just stick your butt in the air and press your chest to the bed. That might help; don't try to do it on all fours like porn stars.

This is so true. I would also ask if you are lubricated enough?

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

The thrill of this sexual act is only received when you are the willing participant. That can be done by only high arousal. You MUST be willing and ready to receive him. We never start out in doggie. We start out loving each other in bed with a lot of foreplay. The whole thing. Boobs being stimulated,, me giving him oral, him doing me until I cry from the want of filling and then he will turn me over. He knows that this is what I am dying for even though this arousal often brings on up and over your his shoulders with my legs sex which is awesome too. But turning me over in heat is the secret. You must be ready. Then more licking and fingering. Finding my g-spot with his fingers, caressing me and telling me how sensual I am drives me wild and I beg for entrance. A woman does this in heat. I know I sound sick but I am sexually in heat and plead and would pay him and this makes sex so much better and so much fun. The foreplay and high arousal make the finished product. To make matters worse I am getting hot writing this and we have one of the kids over until they go to the football game. When you are hot and ready the angle is there because you make it there. It is a natural thing. It is the animal in man that makes it so awesome. Grabbing the boobs is the frosting on the cake. Now I must go and take a shower and cool off...

take a shower for me too..you're burning up my monitor..

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

I have showered and am now clean!!... The main problem with us women is that we are so inhibited. We are taught this and cannot get past it. It took me until May of 2005 in a hot room in Orlando at the Contemporary on the concierge floor to throw caution to the wind and get down and dirty with him. All the stars were lined up right and I let it all hang out. That is why women make such good lovers to other women. They are able to talk. They are not embarrassed. They can say touch my c**t and suck it or look at my p***y but they cannot do this with their lover or husband. This is the part of me that I let loose. The inner me. The one that has those hot fantasies. . Boy, can I do it now...Drives him wild...We are born with this sickness. I threw it out the window there with that perfect vacation. Should it cost me $650 each night to watch the Magic Kingdom but four nights there and we were sexed out. I discovered me and let myself free. But where in the world have I been all these wasted years. All this wonderful sex I have missed. So, I am making up for it now...

I have never had so much fun in my life as I have had in the last two years because I am admitting that this is who I am inside and letting it all hang out......I have found that I am a lady but leave her at the door when we have sex.....His wild woman takes over there....says anything and does anything....keeps it hot.....When I leave the bedroom, I pick up the lady again....Life is good....

who was it who said; a man wants a lady in the kitchen and a wh*re in the bedroom..