Thread: Just wondering

^^^ROTFL - makes me remember a frat brother I had who got embarassed because he told 1 person what his undercover lover liked to do (blow him, take the load in her mouth, than give it back to him with a nice wet kiss)...and it got around. She hated him for telling and he hated us for laughing so hard...that's when I learned what a snowball was.

Anyway, my wife doesn't usually finish a BJ - she uses it as a transition to sex. She has finishes a few times, but she has a serious gag reflex...so I know she does it for me, not because she likes it.

I have a bad gag reflex too and most of the time just getting too into a BJ can trigger it so I usually just use it for foreplay. He's went in my mouth a few times but I really didn't like it. I wish that I did because I know that he wants me to, he's even offered the whole "snowball" thing but I just can't bring myself to let it get in my mouth.

Everyone has a different take on this..... my bottom line is I want to release and my wife wants to get better at receiving it.... we are looking for some techniques that we can accomplish this.... btw I give her oral to climax so she wants to give back that incredible feeling.... She says I taste fine, but the "mucus" type texture makes her gag a bit - she doesn't like that as she says it stops the whole thing too soon... she wants to have a smooth transition from my climax to a smooth swallow to some playful "after glow" nibbling....

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY GOOD IDEAS??

I have never asked my women to even take it in the mouth as I personally see it no different than me blowing my nose into her mouth!
Sorry, if that grosses you out, thats just how I have always felt.
She did once and once only on the second night of our honey moon.
Once I blasted off, she tapped me on the stomach as if to say.."umm..can I spit this out now?"..which she did.

Truthfully, I really feel strange expecting her to take it in the mouth. Like I'm asking WAY too much. So, therefore I always tell her when I am about to go and she plays a game to see how far I can shoot. That part she really digs, like a pre-teen boy doing the same thing!

See.... everyone is different..... we want to make it a part of our lives.... I am already providing this pleasure to her... she just wants "in" the game....