Thread: please help i need advice

some please i need advice
i am dating this guy for awhile now and whenever it comes tohaving sex i chicken out (reason) cause i have exima and my skin tends to act up allot these days cause of where in living
but he does not care that i have them he just want to hold me and love me, but i knowing that they are their makes me loose interest in doing it im start thinkin.......is going to scorn me do i look tempting all sorts of things very annoying and i feel this is going to chase him away..........even though he is tellin different, that he wants to be with me
sometimes i make him get so hot and the../......bam i just pull away and i see itin his eyes that he is diappointed but then he shuns it off by tellin me dont worry and finds something to eat or sleep and then the guilt buckets comes over my head and falls hard


i need some advice on what to do

Is it possible that you are using excema as an excuse for a deeper issue you may have with having sex? If he loves you and cares about you then a little dry skin is a non-issue.

i have a feelin that it might by tru i just dont feel like i am good thats all but will never know untill i do cause i love to please my man and yes he is worth it but sexual i am still .........hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm word lesss............................

If you aren't comfortable having sex then don't. But if you do want to but are just worried you'll disappoint him, just ask a lot of questions. Ask him what he wants and what feels good. If you're doing what he likes, he'll let you know.

thanks sure will do

My best friend (a woman) has excema and told me this trick:

The first time she made love with her husband (while they were dating) she had just gotten a bad flare up...and they had planned the night out and she didn't want to disappoint. So she put on a sexy lingerie that covered everything but had slits all the way up the front and back. Long story short, they got what they wanted - he had great sex with her for the 1st time and she was covered up the whole time. She said they were able to do EVERYTHING (oral, her on top, doggie, style, etc) and it was great.

After that, the sexual tension was gone and she was more comfortable with him...

Good Luck...