Thread: What do women really want

What is it that most women really want from a man?

Originally Posted by heatherh

What is it that most women really want from a man? I was married for 13 years and now that my wife left am wondering what I could have done differently. I do not feel that penis size is all that she wanted and I felt things sexually were very good. Can some of you women please help me out and give me some ideas on how I can spice things up and possibly some things that you enjoy more than others in the bedrfoom

A lot of women like oral about the best (I do not but I am not the majority). I'd say concentrate on the clit, but also take a walk on the wild side and lick her lower sexual place too. When you make love, take cues....when she says faster go faster. But sometimes slow is good to start. Make sure, above all....she is very turned on with long periods of foreplay or porn, etc., if you can stand it.

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A: I don't think your sexual relationship was the reason your wife left. She's just incredibly selfish and a control freak sounds like.

You are better off without her.

She was never like that

Originally Posted by heatherh

She was never like that

Well, from what you wrote earlier and from the other thread you made she sounds like she's out for her and her only. But you deleted it.

Carry on.

Originally Posted by heatherh

What is it that most women really want from a man?

There are many different women with many different personalities.

Some wants are common to most women but not all. There is no set of rules for all women. Most women will let you know in one way or another what they want. You just have to become an good listner. The man who listens is the man who gets what he wants in return.

What do women want? Here's my short list, lol. I think my husband does all but about two of these things:

Listen.

Be where you say you are.

If you're going to be later than you said you were, call. Please don't say your cell was in your coat, in the car, or wherever else. It's okay that you were having beers, or cigars, or whatever with the guys. Just let us know you aren't dead in a ditch.

Hold our hands, kiss us, and hug us randomly, before we do it to you. However often you do it, more is always good.

Do the dishes sometimes. Or throw in a load of laundry. Or empty the dishwasher. Do all three and you can only imagine the pleasure that will be in store for you.

Don't make us have to do all the "date night" arranging. YOU call your sister and see if she'll watch the kids, make a reservation, and tell us where we're going for dinner. This does not include Applebee's, TGIFs, Chili's, or Ruby Tuesday.

Tell us how your day was. We really like to know.

Let us sleep in on the weekend (if that's what we like) and when its nice out, get our car washed once in a while and bring us back coffee.

Never buy an appliance for a birthday, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, or anniversary. Unless we ask for a Kitchen Aid mixer or Viking stove, of course.

Never underestimate the power of diamonds.

Realize that we think about you ALL THE TIME.

Suffer through a ****** period-piece movie once in a great while if that's what we want to watch; especially if we are patient throughout football season, both college and NFL, pre-and-post baseball season, regular baseball season, March Madness, and every major golf and tennis event. (I am)

Please either put your clothes away, in the hamper, or in the dry cleaning pile.

Have a sense of humor.

You chose to be in the foxhole with us. When you're not in the foxhole, keep it in your pants.

Oral.

Oral.

And more oral.

Tell us how much you love us.

Tell us how sexy we are.

Tell us how much you love us.

Can I get an Amen?

Amen sista!

Originally Posted by LadyLane

What do women want? Here's my short list, lol. I think my husband does all but about two of these things:

Listen.

Be where you say you are.

If you're going to be later than you said you were, call. Please don't say your cell was in your coat, in the car, or wherever else. It's okay that you were having beers, or cigars, or whatever with the guys. Just let us know you aren't dead in a ditch.

Hold our hands, kiss us, and hug us randomly, before we do it to you. However often you do it, more is always good.

Do the dishes sometimes. Or throw in a load of laundry. Or empty the dishwasher. Do all three and you can only imagine the pleasure that will be in store for you.

Don't make us have to do all the "date night" arranging. YOU call your sister and see if she'll watch the kids, make a reservation, and tell us where we're going for dinner. This does not include Applebee's, TGIFs, Chili's, or Ruby Tuesday.

Tell us how your day was. We really like to know.

Let us sleep in on the weekend (if that's what we like) and when its nice out, get our car washed once in a while and bring us back coffee.

Never buy an appliance for a birthday, Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, or anniversary. Unless we ask for a Kitchen Aid mixer or Viking stove, of course.

Never underestimate the power of diamonds.

Realize that we think about you ALL THE TIME.

Suffer through a ****** period-piece movie once in a great while if that's what we want to watch; especially if we are patient throughout football season, both college and NFL, pre-and-post baseball season, regular baseball season, March Madness, and every major golf and tennis event. (I am)

Please either put your clothes away, in the hamper, or in the dry cleaning pile.

Have a sense of humor.

You chose to be in the foxhole with us. When you're not in the foxhole, keep it in your pants.

Oral.

Oral.

And more oral.

Tell us how much you love us.

Tell us how sexy we are.

Tell us how much you love us.

Can I get an Amen?

Amen, and I top my hat off!