Thread: Did he cheat or Not

Hi!
I hope you can help me with this...I have two questions:
My hubby offerred a complete (suppossed to be a christian) stranger to ride with him to see his rental properties, she likes the place but on the way back to her place, she pulled his jogging pants down and do it while he's driving. He was in shock but decides to keep driving. Afterward, he told her she don't want her to rent in any of his place.
1. Can she really do oral sex while he's driving or do he have to pulled somewhere? He's driving a vehicle with a compartment higher than the arm rest in between the seats.
2. Did he cheat or not?

I'm not sure about whether she would have been able to or did perform oral sex on him, but I think he did cheat. Saying no or removing her hand/head from his penis isn't that hard to do. Even if he got caught up in the moment i'm sure he knew what happened was wrong even though from the way you describe it she appears to have initiated the encounter. You might want to have a long conversation with him to talk about the whole situation and how it affects you and your relationship.

Well is does sound like he cheated to me. If he is driving it would be hard for someone to pull your pants down to give you oral without you having a chance to say no.

Originally Posted by love chocolate

Hi!
I hope you can help me with this...I have two questions:
My hubby offerred a complete (suppossed to be a christian) stranger to ride with him to see his rental properties, she likes the place but on the way back to her place, she pulled his jogging pants down and do it while he's driving. He was in shock but decides to keep driving. Afterward, he told her she don't want her to rent in any of his place.
1. Can she really do oral sex while he's driving or do he have to pulled somewhere? He's driving a vehicle with a compartment higher than the arm rest in between the seats.
2. Did he cheat or not?

I guess he told you out of guilt. He could always have pulled over to a service station or something and let her out where she could have called for a ride. You have bigger problems than you think.

Men have a fabulous way of pretending to
be helpless little boys who were lured by
a wicked witch.

He told you his version of what happened.
That is just in case the person he thought
saw him slamming this female in the car
told you.

So, he makes up this story.

Now suppose a woman went to put her
hand on a man who was not into it...
she'd get an elbow in the throat.

He kept driving?
In your dreams.

This wasn't what happened.

Unfortanately, I believe he cheated. Because seriously, jogging pants or not the moment her hands got in the vicinity, he should've told her to back the heck up...better yet get out of my car. But no, he kept driving...he wanted it, if he didn't his peeky weeky would never have came out of his pants!!!!!

Yes you can drive and perform oral sex on a guy. This I know....

I agree with the others that this is cheating......and the story has many holes in it....

And it is revealed....

They planned a tryst
in lieu of a viewing
and the female
got a proper
screwig

Alas
were eyes of a spy
whose silence was
not expected

He and his trollope
concoting a story
how she subjected
and though he rejected
her power so great
she could not
be ejected

So confused
he kept driving
so wife would think
he wasn't conniving.

If he told his wife
before the spy
she would
think...Oh My!

Poor Hubby was assaulted
by the wicked witch
not that he told her
before the spy snitched.

How truthful is my loving man
is what wife is to think
while he and his trollope
continue to slink