Thread: Fun with toys

I need some help. My Hubby likes to use toys on me alot. Most of the time thats all he wants to do. He likes to by the big ones but I think that they my not feel to good so I want let him use them but they look like fun. Is anyones hubby like this? And what about the big toys should I try them?

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hello ladypump,
well i think every man likes to experiment with lots of things not just toys!!!!! well it sounds like you guys have alot of fun together and thats good, but if certain "toys" seem to scare you then voice that to your guy. then maybe you could recomend going to the "toy store" and pick out something together and let him really know what you would like to be used on you since it is your body. then if he does pick out something scary then ask him if he would like it used on him?...... might just make him think........ well good luck.

hello stiggybird,
i understand your concerns about having privacy at home but they do make lots of gadgets that are easily hidden or tucked away in small places. also if you feel comfortable enough to try a toy with your guy then i say you should go for it and if you don't like it then you don't have to do it again. you will never know until you try though. i have tried some toys with my husband of course he gets a kick out of using them on me. i have found that vibrating types seem to irritate me just makes me feel itchy but alot of women enjoy it very much. so you would have to just try out some things to find what is right for you.

Stiggybird, might as well try one and see if you like it. There is a tremendous variety - just look at any online sex shop. Some are expensive though.

Privacy is a big issue. There are some vibrators that look innocent - but you may want to get one that is quiet. Brookstone (a gadget store) has some massagers that are not too embarassing looking. The jimmyjane form-6 isn't too obviously a sex toy, but is expensive.

Since you live at home, how shocked would your parents be if they found a toy? Snigger and pretend it didn't happen shocked, or throw you out of the house as a "***** of Babylon" shocked?

You need to talk to him...is this just life imitating art (doing what he sees in porn) or does he think this is the best way of pleasing you (or him)?

The best sex comes with communication...

I have tried a lot of different toys. My husband LOVES to try the huge dildos on me and double penetrate. I think it's a lot of fun and it feels really good. One toy that I love is the "rabbit" It is made just for the woman to stimulate her clitoris. Good luck

Now that's a toy I want to try. I haven't used a toy with my fiancee yet. We still have great fun just doing different positions, but I could see where a ****-ring mixed with a clit-stim device would be pretty amazing.