Thread: Spicing things up

I'm a successful professional woman and I've been in a great marriage for about 7 years. During that time, my husband has always shown a fair amount of interest in what I wear to the office each day, particularly what I have on under my suit skirts. I haven't bought my own bras or panties in the longest time because he's taken an interest in buying those things for me (and he does a great job I might add).

One day when I was getting ready for work, he was really showing some more than normal interest in the undies I was wearing. So I figured I would call him on the carpet. I hiked up my skirt, took the panties and pantyhose off, handed them to him and told him to put them on since he was so interested. He was hesitant at first but after some encouragement, he actually tried them. I had him keep them on for a few minutes so he could experience the feel of what it was like to wear my silky undies and sheers. He responded positively.

After, I kind of wondered whether this is something I should incorporate into our "naughty time". I also sometimes think that it would be a great learning experience for him to be able to try some of the different textures and styles of my other undies and hosiery. I've been tempted, on occasion, to ask him to do it again whenever he shows that above usual interest in what I'm putting on for the office. Before I do, I wanted to get some viewpoints on this kind of thing. What do you think?

Before someone less open-minded can get to this ... a guy can have a fetish for women's underwear and not be gay.
I think it's great. I'm not big on fancy underwear myself (it's all cotton for me; I'm prone to yeast infections) but if he likes it, he likes it.
Do what's good for you

As a guy, I have worn pantyhose once (fraternity party) - and I am definitely not gay. I also buy about half of my wifes underwear and bras...partially because I like picking out sexy things for her, and partly to spoil her with the things she won't buy herself ($50 bra).

Originally Posted by Melissk

I'm a successful professional woman and I've been in a great marriage for about 7 years. During that time, my husband has always shown a fair amount of interest in what I wear to the office each day, particularly what I have on under my suit skirts. I haven't bought my own bras or panties in the longest time because he's taken an interest in buying those things for me (and he does a great job I might add).

One day when I was getting ready for work, he was really showing some more than normal interest in the undies I was wearing. So I figured I would call him on the carpet. I hiked up my skirt, took the panties and pantyhose off, handed them to him and told him to put them on since he was so interested. He was hesitant at first but after some encouragement, he actually tried them. I had him keep them on for a few minutes so he could experience the feel of what it was like to wear my silky undies and sheers. He responded positively.

After, I kind of wondered whether this is something I should incorporate into our "naughty time". I also sometimes think that it would be a great learning experience for him to be able to try some of the different textures and styles of my other undies and hosiery. I've been tempted, on occasion, to ask him to do it again whenever he shows that above usual interest in what I'm putting on for the office. Before I do, I wanted to get some viewpoints on this kind of thing. What do you think?

A common and usually harmless kink. Nothing to do with being gay.

I don't think there's anything gay in it. I also where a suit and skirt to work each day and a couple of my boyfriends have been turned on by what i'm wearing underneath. One even asked me to go into work not wearing any panties! obviously i refused, can you imagine having that on your CV as a reason for dismissal!?!?

As far as i know its a classic male fantasy, no harm in it and quite a turn on if you want my opinion!

There's definately something sexy about a respectfully dressed woman (formal) with a dark streak, like stockings, no underwear etc. etc.

Maybe be a bit concerned if he wants you to use a strap on on him whilst he wears all your lingerie...

that would definitely be a cause for concern!!!

Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale

Maybe be a bit concerned if he wants you to use a strap on on him whilst he wears all your lingerie...

Why? Still has nothing to do with his being gay.

Originally Posted by rcoreyus

Why? Still has nothing to do with his being gay.

I know that it doesn't. When I said be a "little" conerned, I meant a "little". There are sexual practices which are on slightly dodgy ground, such as dressing your girl up as a footballer and having anal sex with her, things like that. But anyway, as I've said elsewhere I think everyone is bi-sexual to an extent - it's just a case of who admits it, to themselves.