Thread: Tips on how to last longer??

Okay well let me share some details with you before I ask my question, I seem to get off extremely quick, like not even 20 seconds into doing it. I usually come about 5+ times when we do it. I'm not really all that into foreplay, but we still do it, but i always end up cumming right away! He finishes a couple minutes after i do, so we're both satisfied, but i really want to have at least a half hour long sex session! So how do I make the sex last longer? I guess changing positions would work, but I also tend to get tired really easily and without even noticing it, like subconsiously he ends up doing all the work because I'm getting off like crazy. What should we do?

A: start making foreplay a priority. If you mess around for 20-30 minutes before having sex then it's not a huge deal if the sex only lasts 10 minutes.

B: Change positions after you come each time. There are countless ways to do it and guys are usually into that sort of thing. If you get tired, try a new position.

Originally Posted by metalbudderfly

well i wish i could get off like that.....

You and me both.

A woman can have many orgasms. I, too, am multi orgasmic. I can look at him sexually and turn into a puddle. It is just the way that I am. He turns me on. During sex I orgasm many times. It is what makes it so wonderful. Why would you want to change it. Just wait for the next one to come. I sure would never hold back. The more you have, the better it feels....

I have been with 2 women who came really quick....the first had to totally stop after each orgasm, which was an erection killer for me because I couldn't stay inside her...when she realized this she would play with me or give me oral in between to keep me into it.

The 2nd woman just had to change positions and we would keep on going...we would go through a half dozen positions in 15 minutes - which worked for me because I felt like I was rocking her world, got to do just about any position I wanted and lasted longer because of the constant changing.

Generally, controlling your orgasm is a 3 part process (for men and women):
1 - Breathing - there are different techniques to regulate your air intake that can help you control when an orgasm comes
2 - Exercise - Kiegel exercises will help you control the vaginal walls - after a few months you should have the control to stop and start whenever you want.
3 - Brainpower - the brain is the largest sex organ...work on mind over body.

I think she wants to last longer while having good orgasms...