Thread: help with 3somes

Threesome is a guarantee someone will get hurt. It has been noted that sexual jealousy is one of the few constants among all cultures of the world, your culture included, of course.

If you have to fulfill a fantasy, do it with complete strangers, before you become emotionally involved. Never do it with someone you want to be with, ever. One of you will stop wanting to be with. Doesn't matter which, does it?

There is a reason polygamous cults don't really last, or thrive.

I know a couple who have threesomes and sex with other couples often and they are the happiest couple I know. (They have been married for 10+ years) So not being monogamous does work. But it doesn't work for everyone.

I have had a threesome and I am not emotionally scarred from it. I still talk to both of the guys and would do it again with them. (The guy I was involved with just wanted a threesome and didn't care about it being a guy or another girl. In fact it was his best friend we did it with) Some people just like to be sexually adventurous and if everyone is okay with what is going on then there is no harm but if you aren't 100% okay with it, I would say do NOT do it.