Thread: Dose guy who arn't gay like anal sex my boyfriend dose is it normal?

I guess I assumed because she was asking that he was receiving - I mean, almost every guy wants to screw their GF or wife in the butt...taking it is a different story...

Originally Posted by metboogie

I guess I assumed because she was asking that he was receiving - I mean, almost every guy wants to screw their GF or wife in the butt...taking it is a different story...

I'm not sure now which he wanted. I'm also not sure which is prefered by more men - the "almost every guy..." I don't think is true. Giving and receiving anal are both fairly common desires for men - but far from unversal.

Really?? You think receiving anal is a fairly common male desire? So do you mean just anal play, or actual penetration with a toy or penis?

'Cause if you mean anal play, rimming or fingers inserted, I say, I get it, understood. But if you mean totally penetrated I think I might be stunned. Several boyfriends I had asked if we could do anal, but looking back now, being sexually naive I would never have wondered if I should have tried any anal play on them. I had said no to all of them except one, anyway. I just assumed it would hurt.

This is a very confusing and intriguing part of the sexuality of a woman....I would have loved a bit more anal play but my husband resisted this with me. I got as far as his head inside and to tell you the truth it hurt but I still wanted more. I talked to my friend about this. She is the one I talk to regularly. This sexual act I wanted done to me and not on him. He would never allow this on himself. Actually when you think of it I am a sick puppy.....

I told her I wanted this and she knowing both of us and how much we are in love told me to let it go. It disturbs him so let this pass. Our love making is so awesome why try something that could cause a rupture in who and what we are...so I did.....but he does not know it but the string of pearl in my eroscillator sometimes finds a new home and a quick fix.

Sometimes I truly wonder how it would feel to be normal instead of this half baked wild woman afraid of missing anything in life.....I will think of that later...Now I must get something done....

Originally Posted by CarolineWH

....but he does not know it but the string of pearl in my eroscillator sometimes finds a new home and a quick fix.....

I love it, Caroline you're awesome!

I asked my BF about this and he said NO F-ING way will he allow that! LOL. I laughed so hard. I have never actually wanted to stick my finger near his butt hole though. Guys are hairy back there. GROSS!

just for a question has any one of you ladies every licked your mans butt! We were out for drinks the other night talking dirty and it was brought up and someone called this one thing a rusty trombone ?? WTF I said but looked it up on the net and sure enough, its when a girl licks their mans butt hole and jacks him off (hence the trombone) funny name anyway.

Originally Posted by LadyLane

Really?? You think receiving anal is a fairly common male desire? So do you mean just anal play, or actual penetration with a toy or penis?

'Cause if you mean anal play, rimming or fingers inserted, I say, I get it, understood. But if you mean totally penetrated I think I might be stunned. Several boyfriends I had asked if we could do anal, but looking back now, being sexually naive I would never have wondered if I should have tried any anal play on them. I had said no to all of them except one, anyway. I just assumed it would hurt.

I really don't know how common it is - don't even know how to find out. Men have a prostate gland that is stimulated by anal, and some find that pleasurable, but I can't think of any way to find out what percentage. Somehow the scientific study wouldn't go far - We are looking for vounteers to.....

It actually surprises me a bit that with straight couples anal performed on women is more common than anal performed on men. Some women really enjoy anal, but it isn't clear biologically why. Men have a prostate, so it would make sense for them to enjoy it.

In any case, people should do what they enjoy.

I have to give the props up to Caroline ... she convinced me to let my toy find a new home ... and OH MY GOD.
I am converted. I "never had a problem with," but "didn't get much from" anal play/sex before. I don't know what happened, but I am on the boat.
And I think any man should be able to be on the boat too, without being called gay. I'm certainly not a gay man ... well, I do love men AND Christina Aguilera AND the color pink ... but I think those are womanly traits as well :P
My lovely Mister Conservative doesn't know what he's missing ^^* Haha!

Originally Posted by Fallen1

I love it, Caroline you're awesome!

Fallen1: I have so much fun out of life that I am actually starting to think that I am normal......Now if I can convince the rest of the world of this, I am in good shape....