Thread: Masturbation

My husband will not let me masturbate in front of him. I would love to do this as Eric my Eroscillator takes me on a trip to the God's. It is so erotic but I have quit asking him. We never use or have ever used any kind of a toy during sex....Just fingers and mouth's.....

I have asked my friend on this as she knows how I would love to do this in front of him and she told me to leave it alone. She knows us both very well and said that he has always been the keeper of my pleasures and feels threatened by a machine being able to do what he can do. I have only known a vibrator for three years.

I often wonder, and maybe even hope that some evening after he has gone to bed and I have gotten Eric out, how he will react to find me in the guest bedroom jacking off. Should be some pretty hot scene.....I have a feeling that I will some day find out....I'll just invite him in....

For me, it depends on whether I have a great love in my life. Masterbating, although I cum well, doesn't fullfill many of my needs so if I don't have a mate, I do it about 2 times per day. If I do have a love, I do it less often as the sex we have together has a more lasting effect (meets more of my needs).

Originally Posted by JujuBee Vanillabean

Okay, I have to ask a large pool of women this question, how often do you all masturbate? I have several orgasms all by my lonesome every day and I always have. Whats the norm? (I'm only asking out of curiosity. I'm not worried about my "alone time." lol.)

I self pleasure as often as I can. Meaning: when I am home I get naked and save on laundry! Last night I went to bed at 11 but didn't actually fall asleep until 4:40 a.m.

I am enjoying this time of increased desire and kinda hope it doesn't end.

Is it possible to just be to tired to masturbate...I think thats my problem...I would more often but I am in school full time and work a lot...By the time I am getting settled down in bed its usually 2 or 3 am and I just fall asleep. I live with a guy (just a friend) and so he might walk in on me if I was doing it during the day which is why I usually only do it at night when I am not too tired...