Thread: Can only orgasm when....

Hello everyone,
I have noticed when i have sex with a man i do not have an orgasm. I have only had an orgasm with one partner and that was with oral sex while he was performing. The only times i notice when i do have an orgasm is when I do it myself or when I need to urinate badly or if i am having phone sex.

Has anyone experienced that? I can't ask my girlfriends hey do you have an orgasm when you need to urinate really bad.

Let me know your thoughts.....

Wait....I came across this on accident.
If you are still here in this forum, are you saying you can climax from pee'ing?

I have had the wife tell me she can climax from just thoughts, but this is totally a new one to me.

Thanks.

Originally Posted by Chica_bella813

The only times i notice when i do have an orgasm is when I do it myself or when I need to urinate badly or if i am having phone sex.

While climax from not urinating is probably very rare, all sorts of people climax from all sorts of not-specifically-sexual-activity. Just google any word and add "fetish" and theres probably somebody getting off to it.

Sounds like clitoral stimulation just might be what does it for you.
When you have to pee there's probably a lot more activity in the the area ie blood flow and nerves telling you that you have to go... I'm no doctor but I'm just assuming.
I, on the other hand, cannot orgasm if I have to pee because I'm afraid I'll urinate all over myself... Ohhh, gross!

Well, one possible theory is that having a full bladder puts pressure on your "G-spot". My personal opinion is that the whole G-spot thing is overrated, but at the same time there are some women who respond very intensely to G-spot techniques.

There are many books and web sites that describe G-spot techniques. Let me know if you need more info.

Originally Posted by Richard S

Well, one possible theory is that having a full bladder puts pressure on your "G-spot". My personal opinion is that the whole G-spot thing is overrated, but at the same time there are some women who respond very intensely to G-spot techniques.

There are many books and web sites that describe G-spot techniques. Let me know if you need more info.

If you were a woman and had a very active G-spot and orgasms from this sexual place you would not think it is overrated...Only living with this pleasure can a woman speak of it....It is not overrated. When this spot is brought alive by her lover's tongue or fingered, it is just heavenly....

Just letting you know that you are not the only one with this problem. I am goin through the same thing. I only have an orgasm when i am rubbin my clit, on my own or while having sex.

My few times of orgasms during sex were in the position where i would sit on top, but the man would have to be in a sittin position too. This stimulates the g-spot and at the same time the clitoris rubs on his pelvic bone. Give this oone a shot and see how it works. it helped for me. Good luck.

It could aso help if u talk to your b/f about it so he could concentrate on your pleasure only. If he culd hold up that lon that is. lol.

I can only orgasm from doing it myself as well. When me and my husband have sex, he'll put one of my legs on his shoulder and it angles the body nicely so your hand can slip down there.

I have never had an orgasm with a man.... though I have faked it sorry! but I have toys and tons of them! Ok correction I have had one while using my toy during sex but does that count? Just not from sex alone

This page is over 1 year old and nobody has replied/??? Just giving you a heads up!