imported_willowlou

Well I have been married for a little over a year and my husband and I have great relationship but having sex feels like a hassel. We love eachother and we are both attracted to eachother so I am not sure what the problem is? We use to not care how tired we were what we had to do the next day we always made time for sex. Sometimes I feel like our sex life is very boring as bad as that sounds. I have never in my life been able to have an orgasm during penetration. I feel like that plays a big part of it. I can have an orgasm with oral sex no problem but with penetration I lose all feeling? When we first met even without an orgasm sex was great for me because I felt I was pleasing him. I know this is strange but It almost feels like we either have no idea what we are doing anymore or there is a deeper problem. I hope there isn't I just want to know if anyone has advice on what I should do or tips on different things I should try? I am affraid that this going to do serious damage to our relationship if things don't change ASAP

imported_naughty 1

I know exactly what it is like to not have an orgasm during penetration, which is why I am open to trying new things. I also put a lot of time and energy into foreplay.
Maybe you two should try experimenting with new things. Have you ever used sex toys, games,or motion lotion? Do you ever try different positions or having sex outside of your home?
Although you have made time for sex even while being tired, maybe you should sometimes wait until you both are rested so that the experience will be a lasting one.
Well, those are my suggestions. I wish you all the best on your marriage, especially your sex life. You'd be surprised how much difference a little rest and trip to your local sex shop can make.

AFemaleProdigy

I also agree that being rested and trying new things is important to a healthy sexual relationship. Being in the right frame of mind is crucial for both of you. Keeping your lives rich and fullfilling will help with your sex lives. Keeping your relationship fresh will boost that. You also need to be sure that you are both on the same page. Make sure you are both working towards the goal of a better sex life. If it's one-sided, it may not work out too well. So make sure you communicate well and often.

MANY MANY women cannot achieve orgasm via penetration. They need other forms of stimulation. I would suggest to both of you to try one of the small, hard, vibrators made for clitoral stimulation while you are having sex. You may find that the combination is just what you need.

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imported_gentleman

Ask your husband to stimulate your clitories and find the G-spot and stimulate with finger then he should hit his penis on the g spot ,
did you tried doggy style i think this will help you more to feel whats happening ,

WISH YOU HAPPY LIFE