Thread: Are you familiar with ANR? (Breastfeeding your man)

Originally Posted by tenderheart

I'm a woman who has been very interested in this idea my whole life. I have finally decided that I will explore it, and accept the deep fulfillment I get from having my lover suckle my breasts. I'm actually using a breast pump right now. I bought it recently, and I've begun using is as often as possible to help me induce lactation. So I'm bumping this thread to see if anyone else is still interested in this subject.

What advice would you give a married man who inexplicably and uncontrollaby craves this kind of relationship, but whose wife is totally disinterested in having her breasts fondled, suckled or nurtured?

Good Evening all!
I'm not sure how active this post is, but my husband and I have made the decision to begin an ANR. I have had 3 children, my youngest is now 20 months old, and have not nursed in almost 16 months. So needless to say, I am now asking my body to remember how to make sweet milk for my love. Today is day #5, and I'm finding that my breasts are becoming more round, more tender, as the days pass. He nurses from me 4-5 times daily, and I am uses the Marmet technique whenever I think to. I am currently taking Fenugreek to assist us in our quest, and have heard many people also take blessed thistle. I am not quite sure what benefits the thistle yields, so I have not taken this herb. I have found that the nursing sessions are a nice reprieve from our responsibilities, as well as quality alone time with hubby. He also has been sleeping so much better Anyone out there have any suggestions on re-inducing?

gruverdude, I feel for ya! my ex refused to give the "girls" any attention and they were just about screaming for it...the girls are much much happier with new husband. I wish I had some advice but other than talking to her and telling her what you feel and maybe starting with gentle touching?

candymo, I'm sure just having him suckle will aid in lactation. also remember to relax!

My husband wanted me to induce before we had children so could begin our ANR right away. It took me a while. But I found that the combination of his nursing me three times a day plus the pump (as many times as I could) eventually worked. A long morning session is really important to drain your breasts so they know to fill up with milk again. I also used progesterone which also helped. After about 5 months or so I had a real flow going every session-and needed to wear nursing pads for leaks. I would also suggest buying sexy nursing bras now so he can give you some quick relief. My breasts got very heavy and full. By our seventh month of inducement I was pregnant with our first baby and after that Mother Nature took over. So it sounds like you're doing very well in just a short amount of time. Congrats.

I'll just keep it direct and simple.
I'm a guy.
YES... this is FANTASTIC.
And if you haven't tried it with your lover, DO. It is bonding, intimate, sexual,
all of those things. It is impossible to describe how good this is, and how close it will make the two of you.

Yes, my husband and I have been together almost twenty years now, we have three kids together. When I nursed our first child for approximately ten months, during sex my boobs would leak from time to time. Not only was it sexy to me... he loved having that warm milk coming out and getting us both wet. Eventually he would see me changing my shirt, or getting out of the shower and have a taste. Of course when he sucked on one, the other one would start leaking sometime next thing you know? We are doing the wild thang. My husband, nor I ever looked at it as if I were nursing him.... we both just plain enjoyed it while I had it.

Of the people, women particularly, who are initially put off by the ANR idea, there is a mispercieved air of infantalism about it. Of course there are some men who want to regress, to be babied; some of these guys have even said they like to dress (diapers, etc.!!) for the occasion. Whatever works for them . . . but understand that such individuals speak only for themselves, and do not represent the majority of men who are open to an ANR/ABR relationship. For the rest of us, this is a loving relationship of an adult man with an adult woman, period.

One of the few dedicated sites I've seen that has some taste and class, both by design and by the members it has attracted, is "Land of Milk and Honey."

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