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I can definitely say that I could never get in to that.
I think it's either something you find appealing or you don't. Re-lactating is not an overnight procedure and the guy has to want to do this as much as the woman. No, it doesn't hurt. It hurts if you don't prepare and the latch on is not correct. All things easily rectified. Practice makes perfect......Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale
Lol!!! I breastfed my three kids. Now to do the same for my Hubby?!!! No! I just can't go there again!
Had enough of sore breast and having to wear bra pads when I was pregnant. Don't think that's something I'd be interested in.
Some guys like breasts, some like legs, some like (insert body part here). The ones who really like breasts find adult nursing to be very appealing.
I think you might be confusing things here. What I am talking about isn't kinky or weird, though there are certainly websites that take it to that level. No diapering takes place.
Think of it this way: If sucking on your lover's breast during sex is something you really enjoy, imagine how thrilled you would be if she were willing to let you do it whenever you wanted. Sex optional.
Some men nurse more often than others. Certainly if both parties are willing and enjoying it, I can see no problem with it.
Last edited by Little; 06-19-2011 at 10:36 PM.
i can't see anything wrong with it - if 2 people want to roll with it, roll away. if my wife really said she was excited to try this, i guess i'd try it. but there's nothing that interests me about it.
the suckling thing - i love my wife's breasts & i do all kinds of things with them. but i don't really suckle them - not like nursing on them.
i'm imagining my wife, remote in one hand, watching grey's anatomy while i nurse - looking down every few minutes, "are you done?"
i'm kidding - sort of. it's fine if folks want to do it. not my thing.
I breast-fed my kids and one of them for over 2 years because he just would not drink cow's milk so I have some experience with it. When I was breast feeding I was not easily aroused sexually. When you breast feed the body releases a chemical, can't remember the name, that makes you feel relaxed and I didn't want my husband to even touch my breasts. When the flow of milk first starts it hurts no matter how well you latch on especially the first 3 months. If you are considering this I would educate myself as to depletion of calcium over a long period of time. I'm not dissuading anyone who wants to try but just wanted to give you some information in case someone was unfamiliar with breastfeeding.
My husband is a breast man through and through but he never had a desire to nurse.
Thank you. I never want to go through engourgement again. Makes me think "'why go to the grocery store' when you can get the milk for free".
Why This does NOT turn me on:
I want to feel like my man is on my level as a mature, capable adult. Now I am NOT saying that everyone who does this is not mature or capable, I am sure that's far from the truth. But thats how it would make ME feel. That makes me think that some people who would be really into this would psychologically be in a place where I am not (won't get freudian oedipus complex on you lol! But that is what comes to my mind.) and it would really not turn me on. My boyfriend sucks on my nipples when we are making out/having sex, but not in a way that would suggest that he would actually want to "nurse" them in a maternal setting. I just asked him what he thought about it, and he said it doesn't turn him on in the least. I have an urge to feel a BABY nursing from me, a maternal urge, (dont have kids yet) and it would feel very good in a maternal mommy way. I don't want to look at my mate in a maternal mommy way. I get very different reactions emotionally when I think about my man sucking on my nipples during sex and my new future baby breast feeding. I just see them in their proper setting and I like that lol.
I just think that's out of place. I am in no way narrow minded when it comes to what I do in the bedroom, trust me on that. I am totally adventurous and will do things I never thought I would actually do lol. But I am also somewhat of a naturalist, and I admire the whole cycle of life thing.
That's my humble opinion, and I think anyone who is into that, that its awesome if they try new things and whatever gets them off I hope they pursue!
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