Thread: Why Are Men Fascinated With Anal Sex With Woman?

well some men dont like nothin around they *** hole at first thing they think thats some gay sh*t but they quick to wanna put they penis in a woman booty i think it because its a tighter hole and of course it must feel amazing to have such a grip will he pumping i really didnt enjoy it but nothing wrong with tryin new things. i didn have a guy finger me in the *** while he was giving oral now that i did enjoy

I think a womans beefy butt cheeks is very erotic. I love them! To have a woman enjoy anal sex would be a dream. I have tried massage for 20-30 minutes and other kinky stuff only to be denied entrance.At least I do try..

Because they want something that they have been told that they shouldn't have.......Here I will agree with CM2008....

It is that sexual Taboo....The forbidden place...The Ultimate Treat...The animal in the man of long ago that surfaces...Just like woman has that hot yearning when a man sucks around her anus. She pushes this part of herself out so that he can get more of herself visable...Again the Taboo that may be violated and join the sinners who love this erotic act.

We are all animals at heart and despite the fact that we fight ourselves, our sexual desires rule our mind. Back many years ago when we were first married and my husband started playfully playing with my anus, I thrilled to the touch. When he licked it, I hungered for more. I waited until the next time that he did it, and wished he would, but he stayed away. Seeing I am a chaste woman. I could not tell him I wanted him to do this act...I was just learning sex and all the thrills of my body. I recall that once I suggested that he go in the back door. At the time I meant doggy but he thought anal sex and said he was afraid he would hurt me...So he didn't and part of me thought of the opportunity that I had missed....But I was young with the many sexual urges of a hot woman and not the voice that I have now....

After Orlando everything about me changed. There was not one thing in life that I wanted untouched. Anal Sex became a must try and I tried it...I was not going to die before trying all the wonderful sexual adventures in life. I knew in my heart if I had not tried this that I would not have completed the circle of my sexual life. The first time was during doggy....A missed target, yet even being unlubed, I moaned with both pleasure and shock. Between you, I and the computer......It was a mess.......But no regrets...The second time was planned...Well lubed but I had to convince my husband...He does not like it...He had licked me to orgasm which opened me up more..I was sexually ready but this time I was to find that anal sex is not a friend to hemorrhoids and he penetrated me only about 2 inches. Then one of the hemorrhoids said "That's All Folk's".....Now this will remain part of my memory of our sexual years...and I smile as I write it.....

For all of you who read my writings, think kindly of me....I am an Upper Middle Class woman just plain in love with life and a man that connects to my arm.....I thank goodness that the person in charge of this site lets me be me.....Kudos to the staff....xox

Here's the deal...initially it's because it's the forbidden fruit, as well as it's the tightest hole, providing more pleasure.

Once it happens thought, reality sets in. It takes work to make it right - and there is the occasional bit of poop that gets stuck to the head of your penis.

As for double dipping - you can start anywhere, but once you enter the anus that's the last stop on the train. Afterwards, you need to wash thoroughly before resuming the festivities.

I've had anal sex with 4 women - and only once did I initiate it. The other 3 times the woman did - and loved it.

My wife said from the beginning that she found it disgusting, so I never asked or tried. One night we were doing it doggy style and my penis slipped out...I just rubbed my penis around trying to find the hole in the dark - she was already well lubed (from lube and her own liquids) and she just moved her butt and slid me into her anus. I was kind of shocked - but not going to waste the opportunity. I took control, softly pulling in and out, pulling her body close to me when I went all the way in...squeezing her cheeks together when I pulled out so she could feel me throb...I didn't pump hard, didn't slap her butt, didn't cum in her - I treated her with love, respect and a gentle touch - and she loved it. We've done it a couple times since...I personally don't need it (I got my curiosity out of the way years ago) but like I said, I won't waste the opportunity.

I think men like it for two reasons: it's tighter, and also because it's seen as a dirty act (and therefore tempting!). Personally I hate it, it hurts far too much, and does absolutely nothingh whatsoever for me, so bf has to get his jollies another way. But there is nothing wrong with trying it to see if it works for you. As long as you both take care about the hygiene aspect and don't try to do too much too fast!

My boyfriend calls it the "ultimate form of submission." But he's not into any other forms of S&M at all ... he was really excited when I first let him do it, the first few times, until he realized it was no tighter than my front end (what an ego boost!)
It didn't hurt me, it felt okay, but really I just prefer a little anal play during 69. And he hasn't tried it again since the second or third try.

That seems to be the common experience Little - most men are more curious about it than anything...and if done right it's more maintenance than vaginal sex, so that's another drawback.

Although there are those times where you I've already had 3 or 4 orgasms and I know its the last one of the night...we're both tired, but neither one wants to give up...my penis is almost numb from all the sex and she is drying up, even with the lube. So you slide it into the back door, get some extra friction and pop that last nut off.

Forgive my male intrusion, but I bumped into this thread trying to find out what women generally think of anal sex, and throught I'd throw in my 2 cents.

1- It's tighter, but still soft.

2- I don't bang off the end continually, my other half's quite small, and it kinda hurts us both!

3- It's something super intimate that we've only really done with eachother.

4- The ritual: The foreplay with the butt plug, the application of lube, easing in, etc ... gets us both really excited.

5- She has crazy intense anal orgams quite frequently, which we combine with vaginal & clitoral to mix it up a little.

6- It was quite taboo at first, but as this wore off, it's still fun.

7- Fits our size difference - the regular positions are honestly a lot more comfortable.

8- It can be fun to reciprocate.

Basically if it hurts.. you're doing it wrong... too much lube is just about enough. Ease onto a finger or two slowly first - girl always in control.
And for heavens' sake, if you're worried about poop or smell, just go to the bathroom a little while before hand.. it'll clean itsself right out.
enjoy it, don't feel pressured.