Thread: Sex questions

Wow! That's a pretty cool list of questions, maybe one of these days I'll meet someone, and I'll have a good reason to answer them.

Most people don't realize how repression really affects you.

Repression is the mother of depression.

Hmmm...yeah, does anybody know of any good books I could read about that?

Are you Male or Female? Male

1. What is it that you absolutely need sexually?
Blowjobs

2. What is something you have always wanted to try?
Group sex

3. What is something you have never done in bed before?
Group sex

4. What time of day do you like to have sex?
Morning... Or night, whatever.

5. What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on?
Um, well, I don't NEED to see anything, but a girl on her knees, looking up at me, felating me is about the best sight in the world...

6. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
A couple of minutes - it depends how receptive I deem the girl to be...

7. If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited?
Err, I guess it would depend. People I knew, nervous of being too loud, strangers - I wouldn't really care. Certainly dangerous sex is a turn on for me.

8. Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river?
Nope, in fact I'd be glad. It took a bit of convincing to get my partner fully naked at the beach.

9. Do you prefer to sleep clothed or naked?
Naked.

10. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
No.

11. What Part of your body are you self-conscious about?
Erm, I suppose I would be most concious of a few spots I have of my face... I'm nearly 23 ffs!

12. Do you have any sexual regrets?
Sure, why not? I suppose my main regret is being introverted and shy, and not having the confidence to be a sexual predator when I was younger.

13. If a lover cheated on you would you take them back?
I suppose it all depends, but it's a possibility yes.

14. How Important is sex in your life?
Very important, at least very necessary.

15. How Important is love in your life?
I don't know, I've never been in love. Maybe important?

16. What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf?
On holiday, she was being really annoying, stopping me doing what I wanted to do, disrupting things and insisting that her plans were better (when they were ****), and other things, escalated to a serious level. She nearly got a plane back halfway through.

17. Do you believe in make-up sex?
Erm, I've never had it... Although when I harbor a little resentment (which I generally do after a fight) I'm generally more in the mood for a whisky and a joint than sex...

18. How many people have you had sex with?
Just the one... :/ If you include oral then 4...

19. Were you drunk on any of those occasions?
Yeah. And stoned on some of those occasions. And on ecstacy (MDMA) on some of those occasions (VERY GOOD).

20. Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover?
Yes. Anonymous internet boards are conducive to the truth...

21. Have you ever had a one night stand?
Not with full sex, but I've wound up fooling around in peoples bed for a night before, and never met again..

22. Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so?
Nope.

23. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
21 <_< (embarresing)

24. If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back?
The above question? Well, I'd go back and do it a good 5 years earlier..

25. Ever take someones virginity?
Nope.

26. Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant?
Yes, absolutely. Hot.

27. Would you ever have sex while at work?
Definately, unless I suppose I thought I'd get fired from a great job for a shag.

28. Would you have sex in the corner of a department store?
Yep. I'd have sex in the playpen too...

29. Would you have sex in the rain?
Yep, especially if she was bra-less and all wet-t-shirty... mmm

30. What movie makes you horny?
Err, well, porn obviously... Otherwise it would just be the beautiful women in films...

31. What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp?
Um, I don't know, 5 or so?

32. How many do you wish you could have?
err, 50?

33. What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural?
Trimmed o shaved... If trimmed, just a little left remaining... And short. Don't want a wire brush up my nose.

34. Would you have sex in a dressing room?
Yep/

35. What sounds do you like to hear during sex?
"**** me, **** me deeper, I want your cum in me" etc, desperate screaming and the sounds of a nice wet blowjob....

36. What sounds do you make during sex?
Erm, I don't really know - the usual, I suppose. I probably stifle myself a bit.

37. What words do you love to hear during sex?
You know, the usual, sexual depravity... During roleplay I quite like "no, stop, help, please no.." etc... Sick aren't I?

38. What do you yell during an orgasm?
Nothing.

39. How many times a week do you like to have sex?
14?

40. Do you want to try the 69 position?
Erm, I think it's generally more pleasurable when each person isn't distracted, but it's good, and I'll try it again...

41. What are your three fav. positions?
Missionary, woman on top, doggy.

42. What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body?
Uh, mouth, wedding tackle, and to a small extent, anus.

44. Top or Bottom?
I'm guessing this is who's dominant? I am.

45. Bedroom or other room?
Everywhere!

46. Lights on or off?
On.

47. Public or Private?
Um, well you couldn't always have sex in public, but that's what I'd like to try...

48. Partially or Entirely naked?
Probably partially wearing sexy clothes of some sort, fully naked's cool too though.

49. Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets
Err, pass on oils and stuff... I don't really like to get my hands gunky. Satin sheets for me.

50. Naughty Videos or Hott Photos?
Erm, videos probably, but photos are generally going to be hotter women..

51. Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather?
Lacy stuffs, I guess... Also thigh high boots and stuff. It completely turns me on when a girl's dressed, with her ***** on show.

52. Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle?
Um, both are good, but I like to drag things out as long as possible either way.

53. Standing up or Laying down
Err, either.

54. Soft or Firm touch?
Firm.

55. Under Covers or On top?
On top, as long as it's not too cold.

56. Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom?
I'm pretty kinky, so maybe, but I don't have kids so I dunno.

57. Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo?
PLENTY.

58. Any New Positions you havent done but want to try?
I want to have my girl bound and hanging from the ceiling.. But need a strong hook or something haha.

59. Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore?
Yep.

60. Are there any secret desires you have never told?
Yep.

61. Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex?
Probably the most exciting was on teh front room on the ground floor, with the curtains open...

62. What is your favorite thing about sex?
I like to play with and abuse a womans body when she's completely submitted.

63. What is your favorite sexual setting?
Dunno.

64. Whats your Favorite position?
I like doggy while pulling her hair...

65. When did you last have sex?
Yesterday.

66. Ever been called a ***** or ?
Nope...

67. Ever try anal sex? If not, would you?
With a dildo.. I wanted to see what it felt like, and guys have to potential for orgasms and stuff from it...

68. Is there anything sexual you wouldnt try?
Err, maybe eating faeces and stuff? haha.

69. Would you ever work out nude?
Why not?

70. Would you have sex on the bench press?
Why not?

71. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater?
Yeah, I'd love too... A bit of a fantasy actually.

72. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf?
Been there, done that.

73. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf?
Been there, done that.

74. Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person?
More.

Ever have Sex: (I'm going to change this to masturbation)

in a Car?
yes
in a Truck Bed?
no
in a Mini Van?
no
on a Bus?
yes
in an Airplane?
yes
in a Public Bathroom?
yes
in your Parents Bed?
no
at School?
no
at Work?
no
on the Beach?
yes
in the Ocean?
yes

If I had a more adventurous partner it'd be a yes to all of the above.

1. Whats the best sex that you have had?
I hadn't seem my girlfriend for a couple of weeks. I told her to meet me at the station while I was behind a van outside her house. When she left I let myself in, and told her the train was delayed so she may as well go home. I hid behind her door, and when she came in I grabbed her and quickly duck taped her mouth and wrists... And the rest is obvious. At the end I held open her mouth, came into it, and forced her to swallow it... All without even saying hello. She was terrified at first but was then hornier than ever.

2. How many orgasms did you have?
Just the one that time.

3. Why was it the best?
Crazy spontaneous, turned her into putty in my hands, did some DIRTY stuff.

4. Whats the most erotic sex that you have had? Why?
See above.

5. Have you had sex in a pool? If so how was it? Had sex in a bath, and strangely penetration felt insufficiently lubed...

6. Have you had sex in a showeror bath? If so how was it?
Oh, see above.

7. Have you tried you being on top?
ya

8. What did you think of it? How was it?
Normal (I'm a guy)

9. What underwear are you wearing right now?
Some black boxers..

10. Bikini or one-piece swimsuit? Why?
Bikini is sexier.

11. What is your favourite swimsuit? Why?
err dunno

12. G-String/Thong or Briefs? Why?
Depends on the body.

13. What is the sexist pair of underwear that you own? Why?
Some tight baby blue boxers, apparently. Because it's very.. Hugging apparently.

14. What is your favourite pair of underwear that you own? Why?
yawn

15. Do you have any piercings? (other than ear) Where? Why there?
Nope,

16. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?
No

17. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and why?
No
18. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?
No
19. Have you tried double penetration? ***** and *** at the same time? How was it?
No, although I would like to be a guy DPing a lady...

Are you Male or Female? Female

1. What is it that you absolutely need sexually?
Love ... and penetrative sex

2. What is something you have always wanted to try?
I think I've tried everything that ever interested me, but I would like to try some things again.

3. What is something you have never done in bed before?
DP, I guess?

4. What time of day do you like to have sex?
Morning, noon, night, once after lunch ... and at fifteen-minute intervals between. Maybe I'm just saying that because my boyfriend is far away?

5. What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on?
Either well-shot porn or my boyfriend, in any stage of clothed or unclothed. Especially in ACU's ... but the dress uniform scares me.

6. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
If by kiss you mean snog ... then a minute or two, then my hands are going under his shirt.

7. If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited?
Depends on who it is. I would just have to be quiet.

8. Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river?
I would turn a deep shade of red.

9. Do you prefer to sleep clothed or naked?
Clothed.

10. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Yes XD

11. What Part of your body are you self-conscious about?
My tummy.

12. Do you have any sexual regrets?
I regret that my lover is 10 hours away and that I don't get any.

13. If a lover cheated on you would you take them back?
Depends on the circumstance. If I did take him back, I'd make sure he knew that the second time, it would end with him in precisely-measured 1-inch cubes at the bottom of the river.

14. How Important is sex in your life?
I think about it at least 3-4 completely seperate times daily.

15. How Important is love in your life?
One of the most important things.

16. What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf?
Possible children's names with my ex-fiancé. Screaming occurred. What the heck kind of name is "Nathan Bediford Forrest" anyways? He was crazy.

17. Do you believe in make-up sex?
Never had it, hope to never need to have it, but realistically ... I just hope it's as good as rumoured.

18. How many people have you had sex with?
Two. If you include the oral, I don't have the count memorized, but it's embarrassing.

19. Were you drunk on any of those occasions?
Nope.

20. Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover?
Haha, yes, this board is quite condusive to the truth.

21. Have you ever had a one night stand?
Like I said, the oral sex count would floor you.

22. Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so?
Yes, and often in a big way.

23. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Barely still 18

24. If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back?
>.< YESYESYES but what can be done?

25. Ever take someones virginity?
No.

26. Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant?
Haha, yes. Sure. Roadhead, on a similar note, is amazingly fun.

27. Would you ever have sex while at work?
It would be kind of hard, since I work in an interpersonal job.

28. Would you have sex in the corner of a department store?
I'm pretty scared of public sex. It's not "exhilarating," it's dangerous.

29. Would you have sex in the rain?
If I was horny enough, yes. But again with the public sex.

30. What movie makes you horny?
I'm always horny; it's a permanent state!

31. What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp?
15ish ... in 30 minutes or less.

32. How many do you wish you could have?
I might break by 50.

33. What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural?
Trimmed, please ... it can even be a little long, but the point at which it gets puffy and sticks out is kind of eww. Personally, I trim what I don't shave ... and lately I've been shaving everything.

34. Would you have sex in a dressing room?
Now, that wouldn't be so bad.

35. What sounds do you like to hear during sex?
I like the sounds I make :3

36. What sounds do you make during sex?
I scream loud enough to wake the dead.

37. What words do you love to hear during sex?
I don't get words, generally, though "Oh, God" escaped him once.

38. What do you yell during an orgasm?
"Oh my God" is my basic sex-speak fare.

39. How many times a week do you like to have sex?
~300? No? Seriously, I think 3-4 times a week would be just fine. If I could even get that.

40. Do you want to try the 69 position?
It's distracting.

41. What are your three fav. positions?
Doggy, suspended congress, and missionary

42. What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body?
breasts, ladyparts, and hair/scalp

44. Top or Bottom?
Bottom ^-^

45. Bedroom or other room?
The bed is comfortable, but I have a bit of a kitchen-floor fetish.

46. Lights on or off?
On.

47. Public or Private?
Private.

48. Partially or Entirely naked?
Completely naked!

49. Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets
Um, neither?

50. Naughty Videos or Hott Photos?
Probably videos.

51. Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather?
Just ... boxers.

52. Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle?
Slow and Gentle, with a nice buildup to fast and hard.

53. Standing up or Laying down
Standing up!

54. Soft or Firm touch?
Depends on the area, but generally soft. I'm fragile.

55. Under Covers or On top?
On top. We get a workout.

56. Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom?
My parents are selling the house, so I really don't have one.

57. Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo?
Nothing's taboo to me as long as it's hygenic.

58. Any New Positions you havent done but want to try?
I want more suspended congress ... it's beyond wonderful.

59. Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore?
Bondage, etc, but we're quite vanilla about our sex ... except when we're chocolate

60. Are there any secret desires you have never told?
I don't think so.

61. Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex?
In my bed, where we have had sex the most ... but I'm sure I'll have new favourites once I go see him.

62. What is your favorite thing about sex?
The unadulterated pleasure.

63. What is your favorite sexual setting?
Setting? My room, lights on, cat shut out, naked and in love.

64. Whats your Favorite position?
Suspended congress. Rawr.

65. When did you last have sex?
2007 ... somebody give me an award.

66. Ever been called a ***** or ?
Absolutely! I had a terrible rep in high school, though I don't know why.

67. Ever try anal sex? If not, would you?
It's pretty good.

68. Is there anything sexual you wouldnt try?
Anything unsanitary.

69. Would you ever work out nude?
No, because the less you bounce your breasts, the less they'll sag later and I need the support.

70. Would you have sex on the bench press?
If it happened to be in a private space.

71. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater?
I don't think so ...

72. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf?
Absolutely.

73. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf?
Haha, also have done that.

74. Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person?
MORE.

Ever have Sex:

in a Car?
No (oral sex, yes)
in a Truck Bed?
No
in a Mini Van?
No
on a Bus?
No (oral sex, yes)
in an Airplane?
No
in a Public Bathroom?
No
in your Parents Bed?
No
at School?
No (oral sex, yes)
at Work?
No
on the Beach?
No
in the Ocean?
No

1. Whats the best sex that you have had?
Every time we have sex, it gets better ... so I can't decide.

2. How many orgasms did you have?
My best number has been 15

3. Why was it the best?
It's always the best because I love him ... and I've got enough hormones for three women, I bet.

4. Whats the most erotic sex that you have had? Why?
Probably the time I came to visit him when he was still in college ... I came in, put down my stuff, my friend left, and we went at it like bunnies.

5. Have you had sex in a pool? If so how was it?
Nope.

6. Have you had sex in a showeror bath? If so how was it?
We've had foreplay in the shower ... my hair gets weird.

7. Have you tried you being on top?
Yes. It's confusing.

8. What did you think of it? How was it?
Like I said, confusing.

9. What underwear are you wearing right now?
Whatever was clean.

10. Bikini or one-piece swimsuit? Why?
Two-piece; one-pieces make me look fat.

11. What is your favourite swimsuit? Why?
Cute ones that don't fall off.

12. G-String/Thong or Briefs? Why?
Boxers on him ... and ladyboxers on me. They're comfortable and easy to get off, and isn't that the important thing?

13. What is the sexist pair of underwear that you own? Why?
My ladyboxers. He doesn't like thongs, except once in a while.

14. What is your favourite pair of underwear that you own? Why?
My ladyboxers

15. Do you have any piercings? (other than ear) Where? Why there?
Just two in each ear.

16. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?
Nah.

17. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and why?
Nope.

18. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?
I don't like the idea of something permanent on my body.

19. Have you tried double penetration? ***** and *** at the same time? How was it?
I would kind of like to try it, but I'm sure we'll get around to it.

Originally Posted by Still Nobody

Hmmm...yeah, does anybody know of any good books I could read about that?

If you're wondering about how repression could lead to depression or other emotional issues I would consider asking a therapist or counsellor. Otherwise its a pretty common concept in second year psychology classes. If you're interested in expressing sexual desires that you feel may be taboo or are unique to you (which I can guarantee nothing you can think of is really unique) I would suggest the excellent Women On Top by Nancy Friday. If you have an intrest in bondage or Domination/Submission (D/s) there is always the classic french Story Of O by Pauline Reage which has been translated into just about every language in the last 50 years and is required reading in just about every Sexual Therapy course in the western world.

Originally Posted by Little

41. What are your three fav. positions?
Doggy, suspended congress, and missionary

*looks up 'suspended congress'*
Suspended Congress

From Wikipedia: In the basic standing position, both partners stand facing each other and engage in vaginal sex. In order to match heights, the shorter partner can, for instance, stand on a stair or wear high heels. It may be easier to maintain solid thrusts if the woman has her back to a wall. With such a support, the Kama Sutra calls this position the suspended congress.[8] This position is most often used in upright places, such as a wall in a bedroom or a shower. When in the shower, the water can be turned on to steaming to facilitate a more pleasurable effect.

I've personally done this but hadn't heard the term "suspended congress". I've just called it 'standing' or even the elaborate 'slow comfortable screw up against the wall Mexican style', which has its own mixed drink named for it.

Ingredients
1/2 oz. Galliano
1/2 oz. Sauza Tres Generaciones Anejo Tequila
1/2 oz. Sloe Gin
1/2 oz. Southern Comfort
Orange Juice

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Sex Sex and more Sex

Are you Male or Female? Female

1. What is it that you absolutely need sexually? To be eaten out and fingered and lots of hot love. Being older I know I will have to compromise in time but that time is far from now...Needless to say I need his popsicle to suck on...

2. What is something you have always wanted to try? I would have liked to use a strap on with him but he is not as kinky as I am...Sex next to the highway leaning against the car with traffic in the distance...Anything daring....I guess in the corner of my mind, sex with another woman but I keep that one far in the corner BUT I don't kid myself it is there. I know at this age that I could be wilder than heck if I was younger so I thank God that I now have this age before I found the Holy Grail in Orlando.


3. What is something you have never done in bed before? We have done everything I think except the strap on to him.....

4. What time of day do you like to have sex? Anytime and any minute...Sorry but that is just the way it is....

5. What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on? Nothing....It is there 24/7.

6. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? Lord, I think we head to the good stuff just about right away. Kiss during penetration and after....When you are older you do not waste time.


7. If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited? Excited...This happened when my Mother was at a cottage with us. We left the door open too....Our first baby was 9 months old. It just happened. Her bedroom was right across from ours and her door was open. Boy that was hot sex....That was the weekend I got PG with our little boy. I laugh about this now as I am sure she was frigid and I moaned so hard when he was eating me that I am sure she sat on the end of the bed listening....That is called too many drinks and too horny....


8. Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river? Yes, he belongs to me...

9. Do you prefer to sleep clothed or naked? We are both naked Winter or Summer in a King Size Bed...

10. Have you ever faked an orgasm? Lord yes. What woman hasn't...I could ohhhh and ahhhhh with the best. But then I discovered whatever it is that I have now discovered......

11. What Part of your body are you self-conscious about? Absolutely none. He has kissed every part of me and made me a Queen......Queen's are never self-conscious....


12. Do you have any sexual regrets? No, I learned every lesson as I was supposed to. Oh, I wish I had gone down on him earlier and sucked him as well as I do now. Wish I had been more wild but the other part of me says, honey, it is a good thing that you kept yourself in check.....You could have been too hot to handle.....and your eyes may have wandered so no regrets...


13. If a lover cheated on you would you take them back? I love him enough to take him back. I just could not let him go. He is the perfect man.

14. How Important is sex in your life? Very important. We are sexual at least two times a week and he fingers or eats me another two so for me it is very important.

15. How Important is love in your life? I have never known life without love with my husband so it is the magic that makes the world go around for us..


16. What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf? Too many years and too much ******ity to answer that one.


17. Do you believe in make-up sex? Had enough of it believe me....

18. How many people have you had sex with? My one and only, my husband.

19. Were you drunk on any of those occasions? ----------


20. Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover? Yes, the world. In a blog I told of my affair with an older boss where I let him eat me out and get me pretty naked. Did everything but F me. That was back in the coming out days for me....Wow, I was too hot to handle...


21. Have you ever had a one night stand? --------


22. Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so? ---------


23. How old were you when you lost your virginity? My wedding night 20.


24. If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back? ----------


25. Ever take someones virginity? -----------


26. Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant? Husband, without a doubt. May get arrested but what the heck....


27. Would you ever have sex while at work? Never worked


28. Would you have sex in the corner of a department store? ---------


29. Would you have sex in the rain? I have had sex in the rain...


30. What movie makes you horny? What movie doesn't make me horny?????


31. What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp? I have so many now that I soak three bath mats and go through the sheet. We have a waterproof mattress pad and I am a joke.


32. How many do you wish you could have? Thanks, I do just fine...


33. What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural? I shave every two days. Drives him crazy....


34. Would you have sex in a dressing room? Sure, why not...


35. What sounds do you like to hear during sex? I love rain coming down..

36. What sounds do you make during sex? We are usually talking dirty or he has a mouth full of love...I have screamed and just tell him to put it in and pull this or that and how do I know what I do.....I am the one having fun....


37. What words do you love to hear during sex? You have to be kidding....OK, Do you want me to eat your pu*sy or do you want to be fu*ked....I love sexual words. They drive me wild. I am like a woman in deep heat being awaken with words and actions...That is just who I am....I love to talk dirty to him too....


38. What do you yell during an orgasm? You have got to be kidding again....OK, like Jane Fonda....Honey, you just hit my cu*t.....


39. How many times a week do you like to have sex? Two times for full sex and maybe three sometimes and lots of laying and playing....We are sick....But when you are old you can be like this...


40. Do you want to try the 69 position? Do it all the time...I bit him once during an orgasm....Now I am careful


41. What are your three fav. positions? Doggy, Riding Cowgirl and legs over his shoulders for deep penetration.


42. What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body? My crotch, my breasts and my toes....I love my feet rubbed but I also love it when my husband washes my hair. I feel like I am in the movie Out Of Africa. He has been doing that lately.


44. Top or Bottom? Both are fun...


45. Bedroom or other room? We have a very large home.....ANYWHERE


46. Lights on or off? Only on for me...


47. Public or Private? Private.


48. Partially or Entirely naked? Both ways.....Depending upon the heat...


49. Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets Very expensive satin sheets.....


50. Naughty Videos or Hott Photos? Nope, we do our own thing...


51. Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather? At this age who cares. but lacy panties


52. Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle? I love both wild sex and gentle sex....

53. Standing up or Laying down Again both...Standing at the side of the bed bending over is hot..


54. Soft or Firm touch? Depending upon my mood.

55. Under Covers or On top? Never covers...


56. Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom? Why???


57. Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo? Nope, left that in Orlando...

58. Any New Positions you havent done but want to try? Sure but too old for that and want to move in the morning...


59. Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore? Been there and done that....


60. Are there any secret desires you have never told? Only the girl sex one and that is pretty ordinary with women but they deny it....

61. Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex? Probably because of age and comfort the bed...


62. What is your favorite thing about sex? The joining and feeling of him touching my soul. The hot intimacy of the act. The finally being able to show him a sexual part of me that even he has never known. The release of the deepest sexual part of a woman and not feeling embarrassment. The wild me being released and not thought about anymore in a sexual thought......I am now whole...


63. What is your favorite sexual setting? So many but a wonderful room in a expensive hotel but then I would probably have drank too much and pass out anyway so I will just live where I am..


64. Whats your Favorite position? With him inside me...


65. When did you last have sex? Two days ago...I have had the flu..


66. Ever been called a ***** or ? Not that I know of unless I referred to myself this way during sex.


67. Ever try anal sex? If not, would you? Yes, have done anal...


68. Is there anything sexual you wouldnt try? Yes


69. Would you ever work out nude? Have many times but at home


70. Would you have sex on the bench press? Now that is a crazy idea


71. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater? Been there and done that.


72. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf? You have got to be kidding....For an Old People's Home


73. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf? If he wanted it.


74. Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person? Much more


Ever have Sex:

in a Car? -----------

in a Truck Bed? -----------

in a Mini Van?----------

on a Bus?----------------

in an Airplane?--------------

in a Public Bathroom?--------------

in your Parents Bed?---------------

at School?--------------

at Work?--------------------

on the Beach? Yes

in the Ocean? ---------------The rest are pretty much repeat questions so letting them go

1. Whats the best sex that you have had?


2. How many orgasms did you have?


3. Why was it the best?


4. Whats the most erotic sex that you have had? Why?

5. Have you had sex in a pool? If so how was it?

6. Have you had sex in a showeror bath? If so how was it?


7. Have you tried you being on top?

8. What did you think of it? How was it?


9. What underwear are you wearing right now?


10. Bikini or one-piece swimsuit? Why?


11. What is your favourite swimsuit? Why?


12. G-String/Thong or Briefs? Why?


13. What is the sexist pair of underwear that you own? Why?


14. What is your favourite pair of underwear that you own? Why?


15. Do you have any piercings? (other than ear) Where? Why there?


16. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?


17. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and why?

18. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?

19. Have you tried double penetration? ***** and *** at the same time? How was it?

Still Nobody, I like all of Wayne Dyers books. They are not specifically written about depression or repression but he does show you how to attract to your life what you want. He explains how happiness comes from within and how we choose to be bothered by anything external. I can't say I have gotten to where I would like to be but I keep trying.

Ok I just got home from working all day, I've got Tom Petty playing, I've got my green tea and my insence is burning, and I am totally going to tackle this whole survey to wind down lol. Here goes:

Sex Sex and more Sex

Are you Male or Female? Female

1. What is it that you absolutely need sexually? Sencerity, mutual attraction, instinct, and a caring attitude.

2. What is something you have always wanted to try? A sexual relationship with an older man, not an OLD man, just an older, attractive man. (I'm 22)


3. What is something you have never done in bed before? Any kind of violent sex stuff, and I never want to.

4. What time of day do you like to have sex? I like those times in the early evening, when you are sord of tired from doing things that day, and you can both crash out afterwards for a good nap.

5. What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on? A healthy, fit male body.

6. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? Of course it depends, but generally speaking not all that long. Probably 5 minutes or so.


7. If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited? That's a neutral. Doesn't really effect me one way or the other.


8. Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river? Nope, I think that is natural and lovely (done it before lol)

9. Do you prefer to sleep clothed or naked? Always naked, unless its really cold.

10. Have you ever faked an orgasm? No, won't do it.

11. What Part of your body are you self-conscious about? My breasts, though not too much. They're a bit on the small side, but hey, they're there!


12. Do you have any sexual regrets? I wish I would not have had unprotected sex with one person, but no harm was done luckily.


13. If a lover cheated on you would you take them back? It would greatly depend on his motives and all the surrounding situations, but very likely yes. I am not a sap, but I love him deeply and we have a ridiculously honest relationship.

14. How Important is sex in your life? Very Important. It is part of what brings us so close.

15. How Important is love in your life? More important than sex.


16. What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf? Recently, when he accidentally overdrew and our joined savings account suffered for it. I was so ****ed.


17. Do you believe in make-up sex? Sure!

18. How many people have you had sex with? 4

19. Were you drunk on any of those occasions? Well sure, but never the first time with anyone.


20. Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover? I don't believe I have. May be wrong on that one....


21. Have you ever had a one night stand? No


22. Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so? I totally didn't think I was doing that the only time. But when it was over, I knew for sure.


23. How old were you when you lost your virginity? 16


24. If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back? Nah, what I have done it part of who I am and I have learned from it all.


25. Ever take someones virginity? No


26. Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant? I assume this means restaurant table, and... no.


27. Would you ever have sex while at work? That would depend on how laid back the place was, and who it was with, but very likely yes.


28. Would you have sex in the corner of a department store? No


29. Would you have sex in the rain? Definately, that would be hot.


30. What movie makes you horny? Hmm there are more then one. Most recent: In the movie "Elizabeth", the first one on Queen Elizabeth, the way her first lover looks at her makes me horny.


31. What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp? Can't say for sure, but probably upwards of 5 or 6.


32. How many do you wish you could have? I think that 5 or 6 is sufficiant lol.


33. What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural? Shaved on the sides, and what's left is trimmed a bit.


34. Would you have sex in a dressing room? Yeah


35. What sounds do you like to hear during sex? Fitting music, and his breathing and moaning.

36. What sounds do you make during sex? Mainly just noises.


37. What words do you love to hear during sex? "I love you" and "yeahhhhh" lol


38. What do you yell during an orgasm? I just yell.


39. How many times a week do you like to have sex? Generally at least once a day, but doesn't always have to be that much.


40. Do you want to try the 69 position? Allready have. It's Ok.


41. What are your three fav. positions? (1) sitting up facing eachother. (2) doggy style (3)Me on top


42. What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body? Insides of my thighs, back of my neck, and hips.


44. Top or Bottom? Both equally


45. Bedroom or other room? Bedroom and other rooms


46. Lights on or off? I like both, but I like a little light, from a candle or fish tank.


47. Public or Private? Depends on the company.


48. Partially or Entirely naked? Oh Entirely.


49. Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets How about all that stuff. Yeah, all of it.


50. Naughty Videos or Hott Photos? Photos for sure.


51. Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather? Silk


52. Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle? Start with one and finnish with the other. How can you pick between this stuff lol???

53. Standing up or Laying down Mainly laying down, but both!


54. Soft or Firm touch? Soft in the beginning, and firm in the end.

55. Under Covers or On top? Top


56. Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom? Allready have.


57. Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo? Possibly my fantasy of having sex with a guy I met at a Beltane ritual, with a bon fire and plenty of alcohol, out in the woods in the middle of the night might be considered taboo by some.

58. Any New Positions you havent done but want to try? There are some that include standing up and using a chair.


59. Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore? I don't think so.


60. Are there any secret desires you have never told? No

61. Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex? I am generally too concerned with what we're doing to even remember where I am.


62. What is your favorite thing about sex? The closeness.


63. What is your favorite sexual setting? The anticipation.


64. Whats your Favorite position? Probably ... wait this has allready been asked.


65. When did you last have sex? night before last.


66. Ever been called a ***** or ? no


67. Ever try anal sex? If not, would you? Yes and I didn't care for it.


68. Is there anything sexual you wouldnt try? There are PLENTY of sexual things I will never try.


69. Would you ever work out nude? Oh sure, I do yoga nude all the time.


70. Would you have sex on the bench press? No that doesn't turn me on at all.


71. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater? I did when i was a teenager and I think its ****** now.


72. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf? No, I don't care much for porn.


73. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf? Maybe...


74. Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person? Niether, I think I am pretty average. Maybe a little more...


Ever have Sex:

in a Car? Yeah

in a Truck Bed? Yeah

in a Mini Van? Not total sex

on a Bus? No

in an Airplane? No

in a Public Bathroom? NO

in your Parents Bed? Oh god, maybe I can't remember. I don't WANT to remember lol.

at School? No

at Work? No

on the Beach? No, ****it

in the Ocean? No

1. Whats the best sex that you have had? There have been many


2. How many orgasms did you have? 5 or 6 probably


3. Why was it the best? It just WAS


4. Whats the most erotic sex that you have had? Why?

5. Have you had sex in a pool? If so how was it? It was good, but I like having my bum out of the water during.

6. Have you had sex in a showeror bath? If so how was it? Oh really good, I love this.


7. Have you tried you being on top? Definately.

8. What did you think of it? How was it? Awesome, I think its fabulous.


9. What underwear are you wearing right now? Black Barely There!


10. Bikini or one-piece swimsuit? Why? Bikini. I like to feel the sun all over my skin as much as possible. Plus I've worked real hard on that stomach lol.


11. What is your favourite swimsuit? Why? my plad pink and various other colors two piece.


12. G-String/Thong or Briefs? Why? For me or him?? I hate thongs, so briefs. Um, same for him.


13. What is the sexist pair of underwear that you own? Why? Just some black tight ones.


14. What is your favourite pair of underwear that you own? Why? Barely There, I want that **** to be comfurtable and easily removable.


15. Do you have any piercings? (other than ear) Where? Why there? No, I pass out easilt if something metal goes through my skin. lol pathetic I know, but I just can't do it!


16. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why? Nope


17. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and why? No, I'm a naturalist.

18. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why?

19. Have you tried double penetration? ***** and *** at the same time? How was it?
no, why no I haven't!

I just wanted to say a quick thank you to Rose5 and SinisterUrge for the book suggestions. I really appreciate it.

Sex Sex and more Sex

Are you Male or Female? male 50

1. What is it that you absolutely need sexually? To see my wife in absolute ecstasy.

2. What is something you have always wanted to try? Have tried pretty much what was on our minds.


3. What is something you have never done in bed before? anal

4. What time of day do you like to have sex? Evening

5. What do you absolutely need to see to turn you on? My wife's eagerness for sex.

6. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? Not long, perhaps a few minutes.


7. If someone was in the next room while you had sex would it make you nervous or excited? Depends on who it is in the next room.


8. Would it bother you if your bf/gf got naked at a beach or river? No, it wouldn't happen anyway.

9. Do you prefer to sleep clothed or naked? Summer: naked, Winter: clothed.

10. Have you ever faked an orgasm? yes, I ran out of steam.

11. What Part of your body are you self-conscious about? abdomen


12. Do you have any sexual regrets? Yes, should have had sex more often now that we are seasoned at it.


13. If a lover cheated on you would you take them back? Depends on the circumstances.

14. How Important is sex in your life? Very. True closeness and intimacy.

15. How Important is love in your life? No. 1


16. What is the biggest fight you have ever had with a bf/gf? Can't remember.


17. Do you believe in make-up sex? Sure.

18. How many people have you had sex with? 1

19. Were you drunk on any of those occasions? no


20. Have you ever told a complete stranger something you kept from a lover? no


21. Have you ever had a one night stand? no


22. Have you ever rebounded and known you were doing so? n/a


23. How old were you when you lost your virginity? 25


24. If you could go back in time would you change it or take it back? no


25. Ever take someones virginity? yes


26. Would you go down on your bf/gf under a restaurant? no


27. Would you ever have sex while at work? no


28. Would you have sex in the corner of a department store? no


29. Would you have sex in the rain? Perhaps


30. What movie makes you horny? Not sure.
No movie, but there are certain movies that i can never watch the same

31. What is the highest number of orgasms you have had in one sex romp? 2


32. How many do you wish you could have? 2 is about all I have steam for.


33. What do you like Trimed,Shaved or natural? Shaved.


34. Would you have sex in a dressing room? no


35. What sounds do you like to hear during sex? Moaning and heavy breathing

36. What sounds do you make during sex? grunting and heavy breathing.


37. What words do you love to hear during sex? Harder, faster, lick it, suck it, I love you.


38. What do you yell during an orgasm? I don't.


39. How many times a week do you like to have sex? 2-3


40. Do you want to try the 69 position? I'll do it again but it is distracting.


41. What are your three fav. positions? oral, woman on top facing me, missionary with her legs over my shoulders.


42. What are the top 3 erogenous zones on your body? nipples, penis, lips.


44. Top or Bottom? bottom


45. Bedroom or other room? bedroom


46. Lights on or off? on but dimmed.


47. Public or Private? private


48. Partially or Entirely naked? Entirely


49. Oil & Lotion or Candles & Egyptian Cotton Sheets Natural sents and regular sheets.


50. Naughty Videos or Hott Photos? Neither.


51. Lacy Panties/Silk Boxers or Leather? silk


52. Fast & Hard or Slow & Gentle? All of them.

53. Standing up or Laying down LD


54. Soft or Firm touch? Both

55. Under Covers or On top? On top


56. Would you ever have sex in your childhood bedroom? Heck no, way too small and the house was a dump.


57. Is there any desire that you want to try that you think is taboo? no

58. Any New Positions you havent done but want to try? no


59. Do you have any sexual fetishes you want to explore? no


60. Are there any secret desires you have never told? no

61. Where in the house is your favorite spot to have sex? in my bed


62. What is your favorite thing about sex? I am free and I like it all.


63. What is your favorite sexual setting? Lights dimmed, lite music playing, a glass of wine...and time.


64. Whats your Favorite position? See 41 and 44


65. When did you last have sex? 3 days ago.


66. Ever been called a ***** or ? no


67. Ever try anal sex? If not, would you? no and no.


68. Is there anything sexual you wouldnt try? Other than anal, no.


69. Would you ever work out nude? no


70. Would you have sex on the bench press? no


71. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater? no


72. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf? no point.


73. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf? uhm


74. Do you think you need sex more or less often than the average person? Probably average.


Ever have Sex:

in a Car? no

in a Truck Bed? no

in a Mini Van? no

on a Bus? no

in an Airplane? no

in a Public Bathroom? no

in your Parents Bed? no

at School? no

at Work? no

on the Beach? no

in the Ocean? no

1. Whats the best sex that you have had? As we get older it just gets better.


2. How many orgasms did you have? 2


3. Why was it the best? Experience through the years and open to try whatever is on my mine or her mind. Communication on what we are doing and how it feels and so on and being sensitive to what she needs and wants. Her satisfaction is what makes it for me.


4. Whats the most erotic sex that you have had? Why? Receiving oral to climax and then able to follow it up with penetration. OMG.

5. Have you had sex in a pool? If so how was it? Yes, didn't like it.

6. Have you had sex in a showeror bath? If so how was it? Oh yeah, it was OK but the bed is much nicer.


7. Have you tried you being on top? yes

8. What did you think of it? How was it? It is good, I like it.


9. What underwear are you wearing right now? briefs.


10. Bikini or one-piece swimsuit? Why? Doesn't matter.


11. What is your favourite swimsuit? Why? Don't know.


12. G-String/Thong or Briefs? Why? Briefs.


13. What is the sexist pair of underwear that you own? Why? They are all the same.


14. What is your favourite pair of underwear that you own? Why? Don't have a Favorite.


15. Do you have any piercings? (other than ear) Where? Why there? no


16. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why? no


17. Do you have any tattoos? If so where and why? no

18. Do you want any more? Where would you get them and why? no

19. Have you tried double penetration? ***** and *** at the same time? How was it? no