Thread: Do most women masturbate? How often?

I usually mastubate 2-3 times/week. If DH is out of town for the week sometimes as much as 5. I usually use finger on clit, vibe, of massaging shower head.

DH parents are in for the weekend, so I had a AWESOME ORGASM this morning after DH went downstairs with his parents and the kids. Had to to face mother-in-law.

Originally Posted by FeelingLost

I usually do it daily after my DH goes to sleep.

He doesnt usually offer to help me orgasm so I wait until he is asleep and do it myself.

I dont use toys as I find my finger on my clit works fast.

When he is out of town I can do it up to 20 or 30 times in a day!!

He doesnt like me doing it, so I have to hide when I do.

That is so sad. He won't do you, and doesn't want you do yourself.

Originally Posted by FeelingLost

I usually do it daily after my DH goes to sleep.

He doesnt usually offer to help me orgasm so I wait until he is asleep and do it myself.

I dont use toys as I find my finger on my clit works fast.

When he is out of town I can do it up to 20 or 30 times in a day!!

He doesnt like me doing it, so I have to hide when I do.

That is the way that I used to be....I changed that last week after reading something that the WH had written. My husband hated Eric...He is my Eroscillator that take me to heaven....He felt and still does feel challenged for my sexual charms...BUT I need this when I need it...I was waiting until he was sound asleep and then go into the guest room and jack off. But no more. If he is sleeping than I will do this and will not throw it in his face but often he gets up to check on me and if he happens to find me in this new found position and escaping into the ecstasy of la la land, he will just have to accept it....Of course I will invite him in but this is the way it will be from now on....

How often, whenever I feel like it because I know that it does not interfere with our sexual life...Never could nor never would....

I masturbate at least 3 to 4 times a week, even if I'm in a relationship. I continues to help me understand my body and helps me know what to tell me partner what I really like.

Its funny but I had a boyfriend who thought I was sick because I masturbated (I'm very open about it with me partners) so often. But it was alright for him to masturbate over porn but it was a no no for me. We didn't last long after that.

Why do some guys think or want their women not to touch themselves?

Why do some women not want their husbands to masturbate? Probably the same - maybe insecurity, worried that that masturbation will be better than sex?

Don't know, I certainly don't feel that way.

Originally Posted by kellyjones100

I masturbate at least 3 to 4 times a week, even if I'm in a relationship. I continues to help me understand my body and helps me know what to tell me partner what I really like.

Its funny but I had a boyfriend who thought I was sick because I masturbated (I'm very open about it with me partners) so often. But it was alright for him to masturbate over porn but it was a no no for me. We didn't last long after that.

Why do some guys think or want their women not to touch themselves?

Why do some women not want their husbands to masturbate? Probably the same - maybe insecurity, worried that that masturbation will be better than sex? Don't know, I certainly don't feel that way. This question was posted by a man. Please understand this is just my opinion... A man is a special commodity...He, unlike us women, can only orgasm so often. I believe most women are like I am, and adore this...If my husband could have me two or three times a day, I would just love it...A woman, unlike a man, is hot and orgasmic and what we have does not die down or go away....A man can only do this on a limited schedule. Now understand that I am not talking about the younger generation but those past 35 to 40. I do not take into account a man when he is having a fantastic day and not ejaculating each time he enters a woman. If he is capable of retarding his ejaculate as my husband can, he can be very sexual. But this does take practice. A woman can masturbate until the cows come home. She very seldom wear herself down to the point that she could not go another round...Especially if she is a very sexual woman who knows her own body...A man cannot do this...A woman can masturbate and find all the wonderful places of arousal that a man cannot find. It is our silent heaven. A man can do this too and take himself to a place that he will not find when entering a woman... It is just part of who we each are.... I belive that both sexes could be their own best lover's but you must learn to draw the line when your own love of pleasuring yourself, curtails the happiness that you owe your partner and hurts your sex life. This joy belongs to them and only finding this joy will you know it... To me, this is what makes one hotter than hell marriage.....Here I will raise my hand proudly......I am one of these winners.....Take care, Caroline

Gosh women should masterbate more often as it helps you sleep(good if you work nights)&when you come home in the morning have some play time&you will sleep like a log!(it works for my wife!)
She doesn't have a set day as it depends on lot's of different factors but on average she masterbates 3 t4 times a week.
I made a replica of my manhood&it works very well&so good her friends want to borrow it!
We had a border&her room was next to our room&as my wife works nights i would masterbate most nights&in the morning around 5.AM& or border would be going for it nights&mornings.
She used to give the bed a real work out& for a lady in her 50's she could easy outpace women half her age.
I new she wanted me to entertain her but at would have been complicated!
It was fun listening to the final orgasms

You know.. I used to be pretty self-conscious [as reads my first post] and the thought of touching myself just intimidated me. It felt dirty, and sad because I felt bad for doing it myself rather than waiting until the moment came with my boyfriend. But after being on WH for a while, I learned that it's normal, it's not dirty, it's not bad for my bf, and it feels good :P
So.. I've been at it.. Perhaps once or twice a week. Ish.

Now I have a question..
When you start "craving it" while on your period.. Do you still go for it, or do you just not do anything about it and get over it until you're done with your lady procedures?
Just a thought..