Unless I've missed something quite a few of the women that I've seen here are upset because they don't understand why their husbands would when they are ready/willing/able, in other words they feel their husbands are choosing it over having sex with them.
I myself do on occasion, can't really put an number to it because it varies. My boyfriend asked me some time ago if I did and I told him sure. He also asked me if it was because of the differences in our libidos in which I answered yes, he understood. I am one of those females that wants it 24/7.
I did as a teenager but until recently I was not into masturbation. If you consider rubbing when your making out with a guy masturbation then yes I did that but to touch myself no. Not since high school and I didn't touch myself back then either. I didn't know that women used their hands to finger themselves and touch their clitoris until recently either. I was so clueless.
I am single, stressed and waiting to start a new job so the frequency of self loving has gone up. I will also indulge when I am bored.
With my hormones jumping all over the place, I find it easier to go with it rather than fight it.
I also wanted to assuage my guilt, so I did some research as to the history of masturbation and read some articles regarding older women and the benefits of staying sexually active. I may be celibate, but I do still have those sexual urges. Having my insides dry up and shrivel is a horrible thing to contemplate!
more often than not... despite having an active and fulfilling sex life with a partner, but if he is at work or away for a couple of nights... i gotta do it myself, and i am good at it too...
i have never questioned if it was 'too much' or 'abnormal', after all...who sets the guidelines? we are all individuals and what is normal for one isn't for another.
yes I do maybe 4 times a week 2 help me sleep, and also i have recently become single, and was use to having sex only twice a week, but enen then I still did nonthing wrong with satisfiying yourself. p.s. and sometimes with vibrator and sometimes not
I don't know if most women masturbate. It's not something I've ever brought up in a conversation. I do, maybe a couple of times a week, give or take. If I had more privacy it might be more often.
CM, you didn't mention if you do or not.
Whenever the "mood" strikes me, or if my hubby isn't willing when i am ready... If he comes in during, it sometimes turns him on, sometimes hurts his feelings... But masturbation is a regular thing on my part... : }
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