Thread: Ladies, need advice! ;o)

I've had this same problem, and unfortunately no it will not go away. If it's not working now, chances are it won't fix itself on its own. I suggest picking up some good lube, it will help you out a lot!! After I did that, there was no more issues.. and no more bleeding

Oh, and don't be shy about telling your man why you guys must use it. Letting him know the truth that he is 'large' is only going to stroke his ego

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Not sure if there is a 'term' for it. I've always just seen it as I am a petite woman, and my man is well endowed.

The bleeding is pretty embarrassing, and definitely not something you want to continue. If you try some lubricant, and the bleeding still occurs, maybe you need to go see your doc.. it might be from something else.

To me though, it sounds like a little lube will fix your problem like it did for me. Good luck hun

Check on this in a medical journal or something, but I have read more then once, that if something causes your cervix to open, as a longer-than-usual penis would (to more readliy accept its sperm) then what the blood is, is simply some of the period-like blood mixture that the uterus stores for future conception. When the cervix opens and lowers down to more easily accept sperm during the most aroused time of sex, it convulses some and can release some of that blood. Im sorry lol, I sound like an idiot trying to explain this, but Im not an MD! Seriosuly, look it up and see if you can find anything. Or call a gyno. I think that may be all that is happeneing, because if it was anything else you'd feel some pain, dont you think?

Bleeding should be normal the first time you do it. however, if it occurs all too often, then that is something which you should have a doctor see. The vagina is a flexible one that should be able to adapt easily to big sizes. Even if you had sex before, that is not an assurance that it could take in easily any size that there is.

HE could be tearing you inside. If he is forcing your period to start prematurely, that's not good - you should let him penetrate so deep. There is a new foam lube that is supposed to be really good, try that. Also, try getting on top and controlling how deep he goes. If it happens again, see your ob/gyn - it's an issue.