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    I was in a long term relationship and had lousy sex for all of it. I'm now in a new relationship, I feel like I know nothing, help! How do I "learn" to give my guy oral sex - I really don't know what I'm doing. He's very sweet about it, but I want to please him. Shouldn't this be something I should just know? He says it's good that I don't know because then there will be lots of practice. He is excellent at it, lucky for me. Any suggestions for a new comer??


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    Well it depends on the guy and what he likes. My boyfriend loves it when I swirl my tongue around the tip of his penis, then lick all over. Then I put it all in my mouth and go up and down sucking (while doing this you could gently massage his balls or rub his inner thighs. If you make eye contact with him while you are sucking or licking him, that tends to make them crazy (at least it does with my boyfriend). After you suck him for awhile, you can stop and start jerking him off while he is nice and wet and start kissing him passionately. Once the wetness starts to go away, you can just start with the oral again and repeat. You can experiment with different speeds and how soft or hard you suck, etc. Which turns out to be very fun!!

    Hope this helps! Good Luck!!!

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    Read "Blow Him Away" by Marcy Michaels.

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    All men are different.

    I have found that sucking and moving my mouth around the top then going hard all the way down, and repeated makes my man wild.


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    just ask him what feels good while researcing it on here....i wasnt very good when i first met my husband....and over time he taught me pretty much what to do and now he says im great at it! now im just trying to get to the point where i can get him off.

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    using your had at the same time helps! especially if he tries pushing your head down or thrusts his hips towards you!
    my technique:
    put your mouth on his head and your hand below where your mouth is leaving some space and twirl your tongue around the tip of his piece then slowly move your mouth down and along his penis and do the same with your hand. As you come back up drag your tongue along it
    (this works better for me because i cheated and had my tongue pierced)
    repeat that and then take your hand off and go as far down towards the base of his penis as you can whilst sucking (not too hard obviously) then bring your hand back and carry on doing that for a bit! twirling your hand helps too i find

    the goal here is making your mouth feel as much like a 'ladybit' as you can but the advantage being 4 fingers 1 thumb and a tongue

    to avoid a jawache apply the pressure with your hand rather then your mouth


    just realised how complicated i made that sound but it'll come to you

    hope i helped even a little bit

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    What I just love doing is laying on his stomach.....Just laying above him and starting at the navel and suck and lick my way down.....That is hot and then to look up at him as I tell him what I am going to do next is so erotic....Holding and licking him as I bring him to life...As a man ages these things are so important......Fortunately or unfortunately, depeneding upon how you look at it, this has led to 69 many times.....Lord, I wish I knew where I was years ago....Took so long for me to pop out of that shell of a woman that I used to be but.......I made it....

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    Before getting to any of the real oral listed above, you can teast him by just barely touching the penis with fingers or toungue. Just barely graze everything with your toungue and/or lips, not really doing a whole lot at first. It drives my guy insane, and then when you finnally get it in your mouth it feels a whole lot better he says. It has the same effect on me when he does it too.

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    WOW - just came across this thread.....

    You gals know what you're doing..... what you've listed sounds oh so good and I would recommend these techniques.... especially bluesapphire315..... I can't wait to get home and talk to my wife about it.....

    If you still have questions from the guy's side.... please just ask.... after all.... I'm just a regular guy.....

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    Just take things slow. It's a good thing you are new. He can feel exclusive that you are new in the oral department.

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