Following on the heels of the anal thread, I got to thinking about this a lot. I always dreamed of this position when I was younger. I am not totally sure why, I guess because itís so ******** erotic and hot!>>
When the wife and I were first married and enjoying the first years of married sex, she would not even hear about me suggesting that position. I had always assumed women liked it for one reason or another. My wife felt it was too mechanical and aloof.
Then, we began having issues getting pregnant. We tried and tried for months (it was horrible, all that trying and trying...kidding) without any protection to no avail.
Then, she went and had an exam. Turns out she has whatís called a tipped uterus. The doctor told us to have sex in the puppy position (his words) and when I was done, for her to sit with her bum in the air for about 15-minutes.
Needless to say, I wanted to HIGH-FIVE the doc right then and there in the room while the wife was still in the stirrups!>>
She began calling me at work to come home for lunch and a quickie when she was ovulating. I only managed to do the nummie deed about 4 times, and volia, we were pregnant. She hated every minute of it. All owies, ouches and complaints.
Many years later, I asked her if she would indulge me for a birthday and she did.
Once again, she did not like it at all. Just, lots of painful stuff I guess. BUT, since I made such a big deal out of how much I totally loved it (the whole act, not the causing pain, that part actually makes it harder to go) she has since agreed to allow it when she is not in the mood for sex and I am. I guess the way it works for her is she does not have to worry about getting turned on and wanting to do more once I have gone which was the case when she would give me freebie quickies on top.>>
SoÖhere I am with a wonderful wife that will bend over backwards for me. I just donít understand how others can say they love it or even itís their favorite position (women), and mine is all ouches and owies! There were a few times that I think she was actually beginning to enjoy it in some way. Once when I thought she was, I reached around and began slowly and softly circling her clitoris. She allowed that for about 3 seconds and then stopped me.>>
Do women really enjoy it or is it totally just few women that do?
Also, is there anything I can try with her that might make it better for her, even just to release the discomfort? I have had her try with her lying on top of me, stomach up. That seemed to help a bit, but I guess itís much harder and she likes just to drop trou and watch TV or something while I engage in my favorite position sans partner, as it were.>>
Please advise if possible.