Am I Gay?
Ok so I have a question related to watching porn. Occasionaly I watch porn with my man, and from what I've read in other threads this is usual and acceptable. Now sometimes when he isn't around and I'm feeling frisky I'll watch porn by myself and he knows I do this and has no problem with it at all. My concern is most of the time it ends up being lesbian porn that I like to watch. Does this make me bi or gay?
Maybe. Maybe not. Depends on what you want to "classify yourself as."
If you've got your man, you like it that way, and you don't want anything more, why worry about it?
I love men like crazy, but I don't like man-on-man porn. There's no room for ME in there. Even though I do like women to a point, the main thing for me in porn is imagining myself in the picture (And usually my man too, if it's heterosexual porn.) It's not about the stars that are actually there ... it's the ideas that could be. The situations that could happen.
So, don't worry. How you THINK about the porn you're watching could reflect a lot on your sexuality.
I believe there is some bi-sexual in all of us....I am sure that I have a part of it in me too...But it doesn't bother me any more than it should bother you...As long as you and your boyfriend have great sex and you do not wish you were in bed with another woman, just keep it that way....You can wish and fantasize but just stay away from that hot fire that you don't want to start burning......
Sex is the most wonderful and confusing thing in the world....And may I add, one of the most enjoyable, erotic, passionate, wonderful mysteries of life.....Have fun and enjoy and don't worry....Like I said, some of it in all of us....
Thanks so much for the replies. I feel a lot better. My boyfriend and I have a very healthy sex life and I have never traveled towards being with a woman. I just saw another thread about a women asking this same question, and after reading about women being able to see the beauty in another woman, it made much more sense to me that I would like to watch lesbian porn without actually wanting to be with a woman.
Thanks.
And so you should. We "can see beauty in another woman" as we are beautiful creatures, that's why men like us so much and can't get enough...Originally Posted by dgirl07
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I have often thought to myself that women are the single most beautiful creation in the universe. I also have wondered if they too feel the same.
I would wonder sideways if you thought otherwise about women.
At this magic age in life and what my husband has created out of me as a woman, I feel I shine...When I enter our marriage bed I feel that I am in my element...My years mean nothing....It is my bodily charms that count.....I know how to stir him to the depth of his soul and he makes my heart sing......He now allows me to see an inner me that I have never seen before and I allow to find that place in my soul that has been hidden for years.....
What is so said is the books that are written about people aging is a sin.....For they tell us to forget what we have found....What fools...
True Hystorm. Men look at women daily and see their beauty. They can be short, tall, dark, blonde, skinny, average or blossoming with weight, there is so much to choose from where beauty is concerned. As men are not attracted to one type of woman but several.
Women like one type generally, he is tall, good looking, great smile nice buttox for example.
Most women without in-security feel beautiful. More so, if i can be blunt, after having sex. They put their clothes on, do their hair and makeup in a completely different fashion as they feel "sexy" and when they walk out that door, men admire and see that beauty as it's in her eyes, and her soul.
Don't think there would be one man here that wouldn't think a woman is beautiful, unless he's gay but hey, i have those friends to and they admire women's bodies and beauty as well, just not turned on by it....
Ah to be a woman, is all i have to say....
I have said it in other posts that I like to watch lesbian porn too. I have learned alot. My husband has learned alot about hitting the best spots and I also get turned on watching girl on girl porn. I am in no way wanting to have sex with a girl. I just like watching them. I don't think your gay. I think it's pretty normal to be curious how it's done. My husband thinks it funny how that I like to watch porn. He's not complaining though. It's changed our lives for the better.
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Your comment about women feeling extra sexy after sex brought another question/observsion to my mind.
It has long been my contention that women who wear high-heels are far more likely to be not only sexualy active, but fully willing to fulfill their mans needs and desires and know they are good at it!
I have witnessed this little observaion of mine for the past 20+ years.
I have always been a fan of high-heels, since around the 3rd grade!
There are many times I have taken note of what a woman wears on her feet and once gotten to know that woman better, come to find in one way or another..she is a sexy beast.
I am not sure how to really phrase what I am trying to say, other than it is my belief women who wear high-heels tend to be better in bed...hows that for getting my thoughts down on paper.
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