penis size...is it small?

Private.Flangeamin · 05-08-2008 12:41 PM

Originally Posted by Hystorm

If you really want to be thought of as huge...consider dating asian women or small, petite women. They simply cannot take a large guy and are looking for smaller men. You will rock the worlds of many women out there.

Thats a very good comment Hystorm , firstly may i just add for the origional poster, i dont think a woman would date a guy for the size of his penis alone , it shallow ...if im attracted to a guy , of course its physical attration , i think the wyes say a lot ...they do for me , parsonality, kind person you know everything but the penis ...when you become intimate , i would assume most ladies have enough feeling for the guy not to be worrried about x amount of inches....i would rather have a guy who was loving and perhaps gave a lovely massage, than a guy who didnt but was large in that area .
Your comment Haystorm , quite true , it is difficult for the samller more petite woman it can be a problem but im sure in the end nothing that could not be overcome ...but yes there are lots of pretty ladies who are petite jsut as there are ladies who are bigger boned ...i would not worry about this ...im sure the poster has no problems with women ...he posted because he is worried he might not please a woman ect ...this is kind of proof that the poster is a kind ,and caring man ..but i do agree with Haystorms point.

Regards
Catherine

Private.Flangeamin · 05-08-2008 03:39 PM

Originally Posted by Private.Flangeamin

Hi - have you considered a penis enlargement through surgery ? or arent there devices such as wieghts or something to attached to the end of to stretch it ? (not sure as im a woman and dont really know) and what about one of those vacuum pumps ....hey ...sounds like a good idea ...for a jolly roger

but i wouldnt stress ive only got small breasts .34b and ive never dated a man who complained about it but any bigger wouldnt suit me ..

In answer to your last comment - do i look at the package area on the beach ...being honest as i always am on the forums ....i might just take a ...small peek ...but just a quick one ...i find the best countries for that Greece, Italy,and Spain ....i meant nice beaches

**Uneeklyme** · 05-08-2008 03:41 PM

Originally Posted by mmax

Hello all the ladies,

Ok I know some women care and some other don't care about penis size but what size do you consider small?

My penis size is 1 1/2 inches soft and 3 1/2 inches hard.
what do you think about it? do you think it’s small or…? have you ever seen a man the same size as me? if yes how did you react? have you ever had sex with a man the same size as me? if yes how was sex? what would you do if pulling down a man pants you find he has a penis the same size as me? do you look at men’s bulges when your on the beach or at the swimming pool?
Please be honest! and thank you all!

Sure as far as whats average, 3.5 is on the small side. I was with a man with a similar size. When I first saw it I didn't think about it one way or the other nor did I react to his size until... Oh maun, the sex SUCKED. He was so fixated on the size of his unit and if IT would please me he actually sabatoged pleasing me. No foreplay, no touching, caressing or teasing. No kissing, no nothing. He wanted to get right to it to see if I would be accepting of his ahem, shortcomming. Being that IT was all he offered me, IT sucked just as bad as he did.

On the other hand, other men I have been with that have been of average or above average size have had the same effect.

Some of the best sex I have had has involved very little genital to genital contact and dont get me wrong, I love a good pounding and feeling full but it just goes to show, its not the size thats the issue unless you make it an issue.

**mmax** · 05-13-2008 05:17 PM

thanks a lot to everyone for answering me and for being so honest ....it's so good hearing women who don't care too much about penis size :-)))
Yes sometimes life can be hard with a tiny penis but I think I've learned not being obsessed by it.....anyway I must admit that sometimes I have some trouble having sex in certain positions cause it easily slips out........ some position work better (woman on top) some other are bad (doggie) I feel so ashamed when I'm in the locker room after doing sport or swimming and I see all other men and 10 years boys having bigger penises than me....it's not nice :-( sometime s could be really embarassing and of course when I have to undress in front of a woman too.....anyway I'm really good with my tongue :-)))

**oldkinky** · 05-14-2008 04:53 AM

Originally Posted by TnMom

You will be just fine...I dated a "little guy" once and he actually was good in bed. What he did not have in size he made up for in talent especially orally!

My penis is 5 inches long(below average) and 5.5 inches in cicumference(above average). Must be OK since my wife cums at least once every time we have IC. A shorter penis makes it easier for the woman to do deep throat. So there are advantages to a shorter penis.

Before I was married I was making out with this gal ans we went into the bedroom. When she saw my 5 inch penis she said 'Is that all you have". I said "Yes". We proceeded to have intercourse and she had two orgasms. Afterwards she said "Those are the first orgasms I have ever had. Your penis is just right".

So don't worry about a shorter penis-just use it and have fun.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 05-14-2008 05:06 AM

I posted on another thread, not ashamed.

But the bestest sex, bestest, i ever had was a man whom spent so long pleasing me that i jumped him right on top and went wicked.

He was very small. But i felt every bit of it.

Practice, practice, practice, your good at it you've said so get even better, she won't know what hit her.

We adjust... naturally....

CW

**Greydog72** · 05-14-2008 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by mmax

I feel so ashamed when I'm in the locker room after doing sport or swimming and I see all other men and 10 years boys having bigger penises than me....it's not nice :-( sometime s could be really embarassing and of course when I have to undress in front of a woman too.....anyway I'm really good with my tongue :-)))

mmax,

You may try another website that may help you out with locker room/stall appearance. go to pegym.com and better-man.com .

Advice, Don't use this site as away to increase you size or girth. But as away to help with appearance.

I had a problem about a year ago with urine leaking and my doctor told me about it. Kegel is usually an exercise for women, but it also helps men improve muscle control. They also give advice on how to increase length and girth. My doctor said that most of it is probably just fluff, be he did also say that your man part is a smooth muscle and like sit-ups for you stomach that it needs to have some type of exercise too. Now remember, first you have to be patience. It doesn't work right away, I'm talking 6 months to see improvement and strength. I don't measure myself because that is not why I do it. What I have notice more than anything else is appearance. I'm not afraid to shower in front of others anymore and I'm not a stall hider anymore. My man part reacts to my wiggle whim at any time now. I have been doing it for about a year now and the best thing I can see is that it gives me more confidence all around. Now also remember, the reason I tell you be careful is that's the only one you have and you are doing things that can screw it up if your not careful. That's why you need to do them yourself and don't have any partner do them for you. You are the only one who knows your limits. You will also see lots of post and site that give testimony on how may inches has been gain. Be very careful. I wouldn't go into this if all you want to do is gain inches. Hopefully your smart enough to know that there is no way to increase size. Just confidence. It's called, Julging or Jelging

Now for the women, First, I love this website, It has helped my marriage in ways that I have never thought possible and would never try to give bad advice. I know that posting this here may hit you wrong, if it offends you, I'm sorry. But remember, Penis size to men is like weight to women. Yes, it's a mind thing and a lack of confidence, but it is also very real. Everyone in the world could tell you how good you look and then 1 stranger tell you that you maybe a little over weight and who do you believe...but remember, you have weight watchers and doctors, nutritionists, pills, staple stomach, plastic surgery and other groups trying to help you lose weight. Well, Who do we have to help us with our man part: pills that don't work, tools that don't work, and surgery that can damage you, there just isn't a Jenny Craig for PE. We can have most women say that size doesn't matter, but that one that says it does and the looks in the locker room or bathroom stalls is hard for most men to over come. I have talked to my doctor about it and he has told me what I'm saying to mmax, go into it with an open mind and be careful and cautious of how it works and does and more over, be patient.

oh by the way, my doctor does it too. Every time I go to my 3 month check, he says to me, "How are your exercises going?" I tell him, "Fine, How are yours?" and says "Grrrrreat" and we both just smile. Yes, I'm lucky to have such a great doctor, because this just isn't the stuff you talk to other guys about either.

GL, mmax

**j.rose** · 05-14-2008 09:24 PM

I feel so ashamed when I'm in the locker room after doing sport or swimming and I see all other men and 10 years boys having bigger penises than me....it's not nice :-( sometime s could be really embarassing and of course when I have to undress in front of a woman too.....anyway I'm really good with my tongue

Do not worry men about your size. Yes their are shrewed women out their that don't mean to be but I think they must have had a bf that talked about their size to much and it stuck into the women's head making them think that size does matter. I am a fairly deep women and I have a husband that is average in size but its not me that insists on a second parter to satisfy me. He searches the web looking for ''sites that support his theory that size matters'' I on the other hand search sites that support my theory size doesn't matter. He is very obsessed with his size that he doesn't realize how much oral means more to a women or to me. I think thats why I played hard to get or acted like I didn't want to have sex in the good ol days because I had the best sex ever. I got really good oral and by the time I seen their package I didn't care I was achen for some bacon.

**coolcat1** · 03-15-2011 02:06 PM

I'm a black guy that can't get a woman of my race cuz of my size i think its okay but i guess for black woman its not i have 7.5 inches not really thin its fatter than a condom what should i do. I'm good looking have good job what should i do, i like all racist of women should i just stop messing around with black women. I've always messed around with black women I think i might need to date other race of women.What should i do?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 03-15-2011 02:23 PM

Old thread, and really this is a different question seeing as you are "not" small, however, maybe they think you are doing exactly that, messing around...and has nothing to do with your size...

Your name suggests alot, so I'm wondering honestly if they think you are even half serious at wanting a relationship, or if you are just trying to be a cool cat and want to mess around

In their eyes in any event....

I don't get why you have only "dated" your own race, unless that has always been your preference, where you feel comfortable, perhaps in the language sense of communication..

You don't state any comments that brings you to the conclusion that they do not want to date you, just because you are African American, or what ever, doesn't mean instantly that your penis is larger than say a white American....

In dating, woman aren't looking at the penis size...In messing, sure.... they maybe wanting a good romp in the bed, again not necessarily size, rather how you use it....

So you have to consider all of that, and answer yourself honestly.

CW

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