Hah.. The "afraid of getting caught" thing works. We tried that once and whenever a car drove by or we saw anylittle light or heard a sound, we'd get all freaked out, a bit paranoid, etc. BUT!! That's what made it so interesting and exciting. It definitely got our hearts beating. It's something new to try. A drifferent setting other than the boring old bedroom, for once.
Originally Posted by MissGoddess
There you go then.... "the old boring bedroom", i'm sure your imagination can run wilder now, outside of that boring room, pending on weather, outdoor setting for instance, where you have to be quiet so the neighbours don't here you.
You may just need to be more adventerous........
This might sound tough but maybe try "detoxing" from using toys and sexual aids for a while. I'm a 22/f and I used to work in a porn store for a couple of years so I used to bring home and try all sorts of goodies!!! But then it came down to the point where I couldn't seem to bring myself to climax without the aid of the good ole trusty vibrators and so they became kind of a turn off to the boy after a while...(you know how the male ego works I'm sure)
It took some time and sex seemed useless at times, but eventually it builds itself back up. Now I actually enjoy sex naturally without any toys and whatnots. I feel like I can take in a lot of other stimulations now.
Sounds horrible but hope it helps! Good luck!
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