starlet_04

i'm 26, v++ high sex-drive (!) but lately my orgasms are just taking FOREVER to arrive and i'm getting really frustrated with it. they've always been rather illusive though it's not often that i don't cum...it just takes a long time and now it's taking even longer. i started taking anti-depressants (cipramil) about 5 weeks ago (not for anything too serious, perhaps it was more of an indulgence and i told my doc that i wanted to try it, even if i had a psychosematic reaction) and read on the instructions that they can affect libido - i went back to my doc and effectively told her that i wasn't prepared to sacrifice my orgasms for the tablets and she said that it's a common problem and that since i'd only been on them 2 weeks i could stop. so i did. and she said that i should be ok in a couple of weeks...

well, it's still taking ages. even by myself. and it's doing my head in!! i'm a sensible person and i concede that it's unlikely to be anything to do with the cipramil now, since it was only 2 weeks, and no matter what i do to try and relax, it doesn't seem to make any difference. it just seems weird that my sex-drive is that same (i'm pretty much always on it!!) yet it's becoming so hard to orgasm.

is there anything i can do? specific foods maybe (allergic to seafood...in case you were going to suggest any!)...getting to the end of my tether, particularly as the guy(s) i'm sleeping with are highly-skilled and their efforts aren't yielding results, which makes me feel bad for them and that's making it worse!!!

i'm so upset and would really appreciate any help/advice anyone can give.
thank you

commonsense

First of all you need to give your body time to readjust back to normal. Two weeks is not enough. You are "freaking out" over the whole thing and creating extra anxiety and that doesn't help at all. You need a nice massage to help you relax with nice music etc. Also make sure your iron and zinc levels are ok.. Iron (geritol is good) will help the blood flow to the area. I'm sure with time you will be ok.

C

First your brain is your biggest sex organ....The rest follows along the path...Stay away from anti-depressants...They can affect you and not affect you...They have never bothered me, but we are all different.
It may take a few weeks for them to get out of your system but this depends upon how your thinking is...This could have been aspirin and it would have affected you the same way...You see, you thoughts said to you, " I will not be sexual", so they did the trick...They do not affect everyone like this, believe me.

If I were you and struggling with this, I would go this route. I would tease myself...Go out to dinner with him with a short dress or skirt...No panties...Shaved P and hot...No bra...Nipples touching the material is sexy and if possible a touch of them showing through is hot. When we went out to eat I would make sure that at the table my legs were slightly open...Not for the people around me but for us...I would tell him this.....I would let him feel up my skirt and stick a finger up my juicy pu*sy just to tempt me and him. Again in a corner where know one can see but I would pretend that they did. I would feel his c*ck if the opportunity arose and play this sexual game all the way to the car or some hot sexual place to f*ck his brains out....I would think about this the day before and be so hot that I would be dripping and I would know that I would cum like a wild woman of lust....Honey, find it again...It is there...It is just hiding...

Of course I am a sexually sick older woman madly in love so I have an excuse.....Go get it girllllllll...